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| Sharplin | PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2010 7:32 am | |
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Location: Canada | | I'm walking back to the University center on a cold, rainy day. Two girls are eating their food at a picnic table outside.
Without thinking:
"How are you guys eating out here, it's freezing!"
They laugh. I keep walking - really feeling like a fun, sociable guy.
Walking to a party, pass two girls walking the opposite way.
Without thinking:
"Party tonight!!!"
"Wee!" She responds.
"Wee?" I respond. They laugh. I keep walking. My confidence just a bit higher.
1 second sets happen spontaneously (without thinking) based on your current surroundings. They get you 100% in the moment, and they force you to let go of the outcome, and coach you into doing so more often.
This isn't really a new concept, there are challenges and things saying to go around saying hi to people, complimenting people, and so on without initiating a long set, but I believe these are underrated in real experienced game.
No matter how good you are, you shouldn't completely ignore one-second sets.
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| Chief | PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2010 8:01 am | |
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Website: http://seductiveintrovert.com | | YES.
60 Years of Challenge actually talks about making sure you don't avoid opportunities like this so you can build what he calls "social momentum."
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| ffwf | PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2010 8:34 am | |
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Location: Aussie. | | Funny thing happened today to do with this whole "1 second set" thing. Me and a few friends are walking down the stairs at uni and I notice someone stuck behind us, I lean over and say something like "You should have overtaken us earlier." Turns out to be some girl I havent seen in like 6 years haha.
Random comments to strangers are always fun, it's just a shared moment between 2 people who probably won't see each other (conciously) again.
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| Ryan Black SashaPUA | PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2010 3:17 pm | |
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Location: London | | Try doing this to the first 5-10 sets you see as you walk into any venue. Ramps up your social proof, gets you into the social vibe, and makes the rest of your approaches much much easier. _________________ SEX Technique Material http://bit.ly/iFdky0
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