| This is a post I just made but Completely Relevant for here. Read up.
Wanted to share something with you guys... This is for the guys who DON'T want to bullshit their way through things and actually want to BE a high value man. This is really a "UNDERSTAND THIS" type of thing...
Check this out, one thing that you need to realize is that human beings are animals. We all have animal like instincts as well. Relying on instincts when dealing with women will show through. Here's what I mean... Be a fucking man.
In a relationship between a male and female animal... what are the males duties? To do what she tells you to do? To be at her beckon call? Fuck no. You're duty as a MALE is to make sure that her and your offspring are safe and are "fed well"... not to actually DO the feeding. Her duty in the relationship is the feeding and the care taking.
Women want the man who is going to give them the best possible lifestyle that anyone would be able to. That is the "alpha male." The only way to truly allow that to show through is to make sure YOU are doing everything you are capable of to BE the best man that you want to be.
The only way you will ever be able to do that is by really doing the things that you want to be doing in your life... but have high goals for yourself. Be a risk taker. That's why women love the bad boy... They are risk takers. Don't allow society to determine your path. Envision a lifestyle for yourself that YOU want to have and live that lifestyle. Assume that lifestyle. Start doing it.
That is what CONFIDENCE is going to come from... Confidence is that feeling that you have when doing something that makes you say to yourself "Alright, I got this. I'm going to fucking do this and I'm going to make things happen." It's not some "way you approach someone" or "how you ACT"... Truthfully, you can not ACT confident. You can fake it to an extent... but "act confident" is a saying that is complete bullshit. In order to actually BE confident, you must choose a destination for yourself... and either find a path way there or make one. That's what a confident man does. He doesn't allow other people to determine his actions for him.
Animals.... Okay. I will use a personal reference to my life to better explain this and give you an example of what I am talking about...
I am a guy, personally, who has a lot of goals for myself. One thing I would like to do is travel around Europe for a year in a 7 series BMW. Another thing I would like to do is play poker professionally and win the World Series of Poker. Another thing I would like to someday do is be on a reality TV show. These are all crazy dreams of mine. But you know what... What the fuck is the purpose of life unless you do everything you can to live out your dreams? To have a billion dollars in the bank? Cool bro. You've got a bunch of money but you had nothing to do with it because you were a lame, boring fuck who thought all that matters is money your whole life.
So that's what I'm doing with my life. I do everything I can, day in and day out, to someday have those experiences for myself and maybe more. Those are my goals for now. They aren't absolutely outrageous. Yeah, they are cool stories. Which at the end of your life... That's what really matters. Is to be able to say... "You know what, check out what I did. I lived out my dreams"
Well this shows through with women. Every woman who hears me talk, sees me move... can SENSE this coming from me. They can FEEL that I am a guy who will not let anyone get into my path and I will do WHATEVER it takes to live the lifestyle that I want to live, and still be able to support myself and my offspring. They feel the excitement and thrill seeking nature coming from me but an overwhelming deal of confidence because I am satisfied, yet seeking more for myself and I know I am on the correct path to get there.
I've personally taken on the form of "water moving through a river." When water flows, things get in the way. But the water stays on its continued path and continues to flow. It moves around the obstacle, goes over the obstacle, or creates a whole new path for itself. Either way, it keeps moving. Learn to take this "form" on in your life and you will notice you have a much greater confidence in yourself because you know that no matter what, you will keep moving.
Women look for a man who will not only take risks, but when he runs into an obstacle in his life, he knows how to over come it. That's what a confident man does. He approaches things head on without fear that they will hold him back from his goals or allow his emotions to be scarred, should he fail. Like water.. It won't be damaged. It may be slowed down a bit... But it finds a way to overcome the problem and maintain its same form and stay on its intended path. Make sense?
Now, this is all stuff that women, after so long, think different all you want, can ultimately sense in you. You are truly a hard working man who chases his dreams and calls them goals. You have ambition to reach those goals. Your confidence comes from reaching the goals you set for yourself or if you fail to reach those goals, you set new ones for yourself and don't harp on the minor set back. You keep your ultimate goal in mind.
This is the alpha male... who every woman wants to get fucked by because she knows her offspring will have the greatest chances of survival. Your traits will carry over to her offspring. BE a strong man who KNOWS he doesn't need women in his life to live the lifestyle he want's to live and the women will naturally WANT to be with you. They will WANT you to fuck them. It's animal instinct.
And not only will she want you to fuck her. She will EXPECT to be fucked. A woman who cares about you as a man and actually wants a relationship with you, will naturally want to take care of you in your time of need. She will nurture you. This is the woman's natural role in the animal kingdom. She will expect... after cleaning up after you, making you food, doing your laundry, that you too were working hard all day and at the end of it, you will reward her with being able to carry your children.
Another personal reference....
I have crazy, caveman sex when I fuck a girl ... Like I said, I work hard. They all know this.
One example with a certain girl, we aren't "boyfriend/girlfriend" because I don't have time for that shit. But at the end of the day, she knows I work hard and I take care of myself and her (and her offspring if that were the case.)she will take care of me when I need it. Here... example, I work crazy long hours and a few weeks ago, really started to feel sick. I had a fever and was throwing up and really just felt like shit. I was able to call this girl and without hesitation, she came and picked me up from a friends house, took me back to her place, took care of me and got me feeling better... We were laying in bed and I really wasn't looking for pussy at the time. I felt like shit for fucks sake. I wanted to go to bed. But it was literally as if she had been EXPECTING me to fuck her brains out after doing all that for me. And I felt it. So, I rewarded her for being the woman that she was. For being a great woman. The sexual experience was animalistic. Literally... like 2 lions mating in the jungle. It was playful yet rough, hot sex. I fucked her literally for 2 hours on one shot, throwing her around the room, giving her exactly what she wanted the whole time. When we woke up, she had told me she had NEVER been fucked like that and thought I was "possessed or something" lol she loved it.
What I am saying is, if you rely more on your "animal instinct" instead of only thinking about "getting pussy" the pussy will naturally BEG to be fucked. She had been waiting to see me for weeks but she new I was busy. She WANTED to take care of me and ultimately be rewarded for it in the best way possible... my load of semen. This girl also happens to be a STRIPPER. Quite the relationship for someone who "takes their clothes off for money" (you judgmental fucks lol)
To sum this whole fuckin book I just wrote up... Start living out your dreams guys. Start doing the things that you want to do and don't be afraid of doing them and failing. Because in the end... if you fail. You learned. You can rely on your past experiences to get you back to where you were before. Don't let yourself fall back. Don't let yourself just "lay there" if you fall down. Get right back up and do it again. That goes for pick-up and with everything in life. In pick-up, you know that if you get rejected, you learned and you don't do it again next time. But there always is a next time. In life, have that same mindset. It's like learning to walk as a child... or really, watching a child learn to walk. If the child falls down, he may cry for a minute but no matter what, no matter what anyone says about him, hes going to get right back up to try and walk again. And for the child, it isn't about actually "walking" because he won't understand the value in learning to walk. Its about him actually learning to do something and feeling good about doing it.
So again, start living out your dreams so you TRULY have something to be proud of. Set high goals for yourself with small goals along the way and you will ultimately see yourself with women who truly VALUE you as a man that are beautiful and unique in their own ways.
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