Been out there, been everywhere.

...still no results, but now I know why.

I'm afraid to be assertive with people. I know of how to get people to do what I want, but I don't understand how to do it. I know by study, but not by experience.

I go out to test it, but I always find MYSELF holding myself back. Not others...me.

I'm the one who pulls myself back from talking to girls. I pull myself back from closing the sale. I pull myself back from getting what I want.

I have a faulty understanding of people. But, through experience, I learned this.



It's not "PUA" itself that's the problem; it's the individual. If a PUA principle works for one person, but doesn't work for another, the one who's not getting results is doing something wrong.


In this instance, It's me who's doing something wrong. But am I doing something..."wrong"? Am I just missing a key component?

Nope. There's something I'm not understanding. I know it, but don't get it.

It's useless to bitch and moan. NLP is an actual practice; there is such a thing as self-hypnosis; it's just "not" hypnosis. It's affirmations; repeated exposure. The 21x21 rule. 21 days each, 21 repetitions of positive belief.

From my experience, I choose to either be an AFC or an mPUA. I choose success or failure. Maybe I don't "Choose" consciously, but I can INFLUENCE my DECISION consciously. The field taught me this, a book can only define the precursor.


But, I think, by reading and understanding, I can save time "trial and erroring" in the field, and switch to "success" in the field.

But I can only say this for myself. Everyone is different in progression, but the goal is the same. We are all unique people; the CEOs of our own beings. We are each a business with value; how can we sell ourselves?


And now I understand women. It's not that I "suck" at getting women. What kind of woman wakes up one morning, and goes "I want to have sex with a chicken shit wuss!". "Man, I'd love to marry an average chump!" "Boy, that half-assed lazy bum could really turn me on if he came up and talked to me, even if he hesitated and didn't act confident around me."

...and that quality of CONFIDENCE, which embodies courage, spontaneity, friendliness, socialbility, wealth, power, and moxie...is the female equivalent to a man's attraction to tits, ass, no unfaithfulness, sweetness, caring, and nurturing.



I was a lazy ass degenerate loser with no motivation to move BIG AND UP in life. NOW, I am a confident, courageous, unbelievably heroic lion man of a human being, because I tell myself this 21 times a day, for 21 days in a month.

Lesson: Confidence isn't a quality; it's what makes a man a man (And what has made women ballsier than most men).

Take a stand for something, and stick to it. Don't let another shake you; he or she is probably testing you out of love, not one-upping.


I'll probably be gone for a while longer. I'll be back. Stay smiling gentlemen; the path is long, but definite.