| so congratulations on your early start.... I wish I had learned about the game as a sophomore in high school.
no situation is exactly like the last, so there will be some variables no matter how textbook you go. I wasn't there, so I don't know exactly how it happened, but your first interaction with the girl was kino. I wouldn't advise this, but hell, it worked.... so you didn't get burned that time. But in the future, I wouldn't make kino the first step. Before you can ever use kino effectively, the prerequisite is her comfort. She has to be totally comfortable with physical interaction. But how do you know when she's comfortable? Well, that "why" is why kino doesn't come first. You need IOIs first.... and you'll get those when you open and neg her. You did the right thing by opening with the guy first instead of her... But next time, while you're talking to him, I would recommend finding some way to DHV (assuming she can witness this DHV).
When he leaves, I would start out with either a basic open or a neg. High school girls at a game should be easy because they aren't expecting to get hit on, so they won't be on the defense.
But her putting her arm around you was a big IOI.... fish for other IOIs like that.
And also, high schoolers are bad as hell about this...... its going to come up, someone will ask what the other is doing this weekend. NEVER SAY "ehh... nothing much." For fukc's sake this is the biggest DLV in the world. Nothing much means you're sitting home and downloading porn this weekend while everyone else is at the parties. I know its easy to do, and its a bad habit I used to be guilty of, but do not say it. You'd be better off saying you're going to a Star Trek convention than "ehhh..... nothing much."
Make something up...... you're going to a party, if there's not a party in town, the next town over. College town near by? You're going to the frat party. In fact, I don't know why, but high school girls seem to think frat parties are the coolest fukcing thing in the world. So if you say a frat party... in your situation, this can serve as a bonus DHV. You know college kids, they accept you enough that you can go to their parties, blah blah blah. But make sure there is one though (there always are) because the bitch might get smart and ask which house is having it.
Anyway.... the dynamics are a little different in high school, but it should be easier over all. So lucky sarging.
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