| Long post; all reads and replies are appreciated
Having been on this site a year now, I know I've changed a lot. But when I think of it, it's basically confidence, inner game and body language.
- I used to brag to friends about getting women - Now I believe I have a wide choice
- Having been bullied for many years, I wanted their approval even if I didn't fancy them physically - Now I'm happy with who I am
- I could never cum inside a girl (Delayed Ejaculation) and despite several sources telling me it takes time for the problem to be rectified, if ever, I found a nice girl and all of a sudden I could let go. Now I can cum in loads!
- My body language and mindset have changed; I now lead a happy and impulsive lifestyle (within reason).
The community has played a part in this, but I'm unsure as to how much.
My basic game plan on a night out if I were to try and pull a girl would be to think of something situational (indirect) make them laugh, just keep spouting shit with a bit of kino when possible and get a number. After that I might try and isolate and just go hard kino, but a lot of the time in these student bars isolation isn't even needed. My sticking points are keeping interested in the girl (if I'm not sober then I'd much rather be chanting or doing somethig else daft) and party girls, whopeople would class 9 and 10s. You probably all know the type.
I have trouble with the really pretty girls on nights out quite a lot, I get blown out by the party girls and promo girls where looks are currency. I am in no way blaming my looks but I acknowledge looks do count for something, and I know I have a far higher chance of getting somewhere with them during the day (I am seeing a stunning girl but she isn't a party girl) but my game isn't up to it on the night.
Now that you know a bit about me, what would you recommend I do? I am perfectly happy where I am but I don't want to date girls that aren't mega hot. That might sound shallow but I can't help having high standards. Talkingto them helps but it doesn't turn them into the busty girl promoting the club whowears the hotpants that make you imagine taking them off and ramming her. I lead the sort of life that brings a continuous flow of girls regularly and despite having a high day seduction rate I've yet to get a girl likethis, so I guess it's my sticking point.
SPAM I'm focusing on my fitness, starting to get a muscle tone and my degree (a 2:1 is necessary now pretty much). I found my two PUA books today in my drawer. The Game and The Natural Art of Seduction by Richard La Ruina, for 1p from this site.
Thanks
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