I know what you are thinking. Compliment game? Are you f#cking kidding me? I was told to pay hard to get, Chicoman!
Negs are useful for super hotties, but too many negs are a turn off. Compliments are great if done right. Here is an example of a common situation. You see a beautiful girl and you grow some balls and nervously talk to her:
You - Hey. I noticed how beautiful you are and wanted to talk to you.
Good girl - Oh thank you! blah blah blah.
Now this same technique works with a bitch shield too:
You - Hey I noticed how (she cuts you off)
Bitchy girl - What the fuck do you want you loser?
You - Sorry... what I was trying to say is, you're beautiful and I wanted to talk to you. (NEG) "Are those nails real?" - Credit Mystery
Sweet girl - I'm sorry. My cat is sick. Thank you for the compliment. Do you like oral sex? (Ok, that last part usually comes later but you get the idea)
The Super Bitch. If a girl or group of girls shuts you down completely, stay positive. Say like "pleasure meeting you" and walk away. Some girls will freak out and wonder WHY you are walking away and the bitch shield will be destroyed. Life is tough. Some girls just have bad days. Maybe the last guy got pissed and called her a cunt. Be a gentleman.
YOUR HB10 - If this girl disses you, don't worry if you cry. You are a man and you have tear ducts. It's ok to get emotional. Let's put this in an example:
HB10 - EC
You - EC
(You get the balls to approach her after a drink or 3)
You - Um hi (and you get scared)
HB10 - Eh... what do you want?
(but you take it the wrong way and doubt yourself into thinking a creature this fine could never love you and think she hates you)
You - *Cry inside* I... just... think you are... sooo... um... pretty and sexy.
HB10 - Really? My boyfriend dumped me yesterday. You're pretty cute yourself.
You - Wow, I'm sorry to hear that. I got scared to talk to you.
HB10 - Oh, I was so sad. Thanks for coming over. Blah blah blah *love*
Here is a thesaurus link to words similar to "beautiful". Use these sparringly:
http://thesaurus.com/browse/beautiful
Do you think the guy that calls a girl a "cunt" and "bitch" gets more love than a guy that calls her gorgeous and sexy? I think not. Be nice to the girls. Be sexual.
Cuddling
Another great way to escalate if you can sit next to a girl or better yet lay down is to cuddle with her. Girls love to be held. It makes them feel loved. Plus it feels good and can oftentimes get you laid. Why? The pleasure and pain receptors are excited when you hug and kiss someone you find attractive. Then just start arousing her and you guys will start shedding clothing. More on this later...
-Chicoman
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