Hey bros.

I was in a set of 3 last night with some good friends (3 girls) and we were randomly discussing how girls can have advantage in interviews. The interaction then went like this:

Her: "all men in this investment banking are really attractive"
Me: "I wouldn't say that, so stereotypical...."
Her: "No come on, I mean look at yourself... **Blushing at me**" (I work in this industry)
Me: "......."

I didn't know how to react. I froze and just continued the conversation with the other girls.

So how does one react to this? Playful, laugh??

TY

There is no one right answer to this, but let me ask you:

A woman expressing attraction to you catches you off guard?

How would you react if you knew that women were attracted to you all the time?

Sorry, just replying to get notifications (as this is also a slight problem of mine, too) but I'll try and give some advice...

If a woman says for example "you look nice" I'll usually reply "I am nice" with a smirk. Kinda awkward... but not as bad as my old beta ways of replying with something like "I really don't" (even when I knew I did)

If a woman says "You're so hot" I'll act as arrogant as possible and say "I know" or "Why do you only compliment me on the most obvious things? I'm completely aware of how stunning I am, be more creative, God you're so selfish!" (obviously in a playful way) believe it or not, that works magic on the right girls lol.

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I normally go overboard with a sarcastic reply...

Her: You're attractive (or whatever the compliment is)
Me: Pft, I'm fucking adorable!

How about "Thank you" ?

Anything else to me seems a bit try hard

Either just say "thank you" with a smile and continue the conversation as if nothing happened (maybe give her a compliment back as a reward if you are interested in her), or playfully say something narcissistic like "I know, I'm surprised you still haven't tried to kiss me" with a smile. Be ready to handle her reaction if you choose the latter. If she is confident she may kiss you. Otherwise she may blush and find the situation awkward, which is a great opportunity to put your hand on her shoulder and say "just kidding" and give her a compliment to take some pressure off. In fact, she can react in any way. The best reaction is probably that she appreciates the joke and plays along.

You can respond in a number of ways. The only real way you could mess it up is if you act like you never get compliments from women. Act like you've been there before basically. If she says you're handsome and you look at the ground and blush, that's not a good reaction. If you put your arm around her and say "play your cards right and I'll let you buy me a drink" you're going to get a good laugh out of every body while returning interest to the girl. But you could also just say "thinks, You look good tonight also" or anything else and it be perfectly fine.

Thinking too much. You don't have to have a witty response to every single word a girls says to get laid. Just thank her and move on or return the compliment or whatever casual, this is not something of top importance. What concerns me though is that it "caught you off guard". So if the girl is a beastie and initiates kissing or something like that how will that turn out if a simple compliment throws you off? It's a simple indicator of interest just because it is a verbal one, doesn't mean you should handle it any differently.

Peace,

In$tinct

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This are couple of things i do when complemented:

1.- with a lot of acting look behind me like if she is talking to someone else behind me, and i see who me, with a lot of confusion.

2.- i say reeeeeeeallly, oh please cont. don't stop.

3.- oh thank you i am blushing...


They all work quite well, it helps with flirting...but after you still need to push thing forward, do not put the responsibility on the woman.

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