A. Either be more playful about the refusal, or
B. Give it to them.

It sounds like she's basically telling you to go fuck her. Why don't you? If you really like option A, just tease her mercilessly.

Me: "Nah, you're not cuddly enough"
Her: "What, I'm totally cuddly, come over heereeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee"
Me: "Jeez, you're trying pretty hard to seduce me, I better be careful"

That, at least, would be the style I would do it in. Others may disagree with such statements.

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Don't hate, just dominate.

I don't get what are you trying to accomplish? Not giving validation so you can feel superior or in power?

Like she clearly wants to come over and sleep with you, why exactly are you not saying yes and inviting her over?

From own experience if you keep doing that "no validation" stuff the girl will get turn off pretty fast no matter how attracted she is towards you.....

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V3nu

Here is the only instance where I believe denying validation works

Where: Public places where people are moving, gym, malls
How: Using your peripheral vision, try to catch them while they're glancing

Most women who put time into their looks seek validation through quick glances or in some cases; long creepy stares. They want to catch you looking. I've found that by catching them trying to catch you glancing, turns things around.


Situation: Just walking, but keeping an eye out for targets in opposing traffic.

You must be good with your eyes. Know how to scan at different distances while keeping your movement natural. You can pick out the ones that are sizing you up this way and focus.

I casually intercept paths, but most of the time: women naturally (I think) close the gap. Eye contact is huge and I'm surprised how long women will stare when you're close and not looking directly at them.

When they're within talking range (or at least a range where I can take one step into talking range), I dart my eyes to they meet theirs. It's not like a bird or cat type of eye contact it's gradual: first the eyes, and then the head follows through.

I just pretend like I'm lost and ask for directions.

Many people enjoy sex, spending time and getting physical with romantic partners becuase it validates them as a sexually attractive individual.

Forgive me if I feel that denying that validation seems anti-theitical to the purpose of having more sex, more partners and being good at both of those activities.