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PostPosted: Sun Aug 15, 2010 2:37 pm 
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Anyone else here feel that approaching women starts to become quite boring, and you lose the thrill of the chase as you get better and better at gaming girls. I've gotten to a stage now where I'm getting pretty much any girl I want, without any tricky routines or gimmicks or openers etc.

Sounds great I know, but last week I didn't go out trying to pick up once and still slept with three girls I met doing my day to day errands. The thing is, my love of sex hasn't gone away, but I'm still putting in less and effort every day.

Has anyone else come across this problem?

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 15, 2010 5:03 pm 
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Ya.

Bitter people might tell you it's not a problem because of all the success you are having.

I agree in that it's not a problem, but for different reasons; there's no law that states you have to keep picking up girls and keep fucking them.

What do you do if you get bored of playing a sport, or a computer game? You don't just keep doing it thinking "oo, it's a problem that I find this computer game boring, therefore I must keep playing it". That makes no sense.

So if you find picking up girls boring, then do something else!! (It appears that I might have to tell you - you may want to consider doing something you enjoy - that might be a good thing to do).


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 15, 2010 5:48 pm 
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As you get better and better there is less challenge in pick up, so you start losing interest, what I suggest for fun start a fuck list, fuck a midget, fuck a def girl, etc.

Read up Tucker max for more, he has his whole list coming out inhis next book this September

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 15, 2010 7:57 pm 
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I would concur with Rafiel.

If you're bored, don't do it. Either that or find a way to kickstart it.

If you want to keep up with it, maybe start teaching someone else how to do it, like a good friend, or take on students for free/cheap.

Or, if you're simply losing motivation but still have goals you want to achieve, use good ol' NLP techniques to jump-start motivation: imagine vividly your achievement of the goal, write out a list of things that will benefit you once you achieve it, what bad shit will happen if you don't achieve it, etc.

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 15, 2010 9:31 pm 
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Anyone else here feel that approaching women starts to become quite boring, and you lose the thrill of the chase as you get better and better at gaming girls. I've gotten to a stage now where I'm getting pretty much any girl I want, without any tricky routines or gimmicks or openers etc.

Sounds great I know, but last week I didn't go out trying to pick up once and still slept with three girls I met doing my day to day errands. The thing is, my love of sex hasn't gone away, but I'm still putting in less and effort every day.

Has anyone else come across this problem?
If you're happy with what you're doing, why is that a problem? Other people will tell you because you're happy with three, you're in your comfort zone and that you should go further and try and push for four. Think of it as the gym, I've started going, but do I want to be a body builder? Absolutely not. Find where you're happy with.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 5:05 am 
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Anyone else here feel that approaching women starts to become quite boring, and you lose the thrill of the chase as you get better and better at gaming girls. I've gotten to a stage now where I'm getting pretty much any girl I want, without any tricky routines or gimmicks or openers etc.

Sounds great I know, but last week I didn't go out trying to pick up once and still slept with three girls I met doing my day to day errands. The thing is, my love of sex hasn't gone away, but I'm still putting in less and effort every day.

Has anyone else come across this problem?
If you're happy with what you're doing, why is that a problem? Other people will tell you because you're happy with three, you're in your comfort zone and that you should go further and try and push for four. Think of it as the gym, I've started going, but do I want to be a body builder? Absolutely not. Find where you're happy with.

Right on man, you're totally right. I'm pretty happy with my sex life right now, and that was my original goal in getting better at pick up, so I shouldn't really be moaning like a bitch, guess I was just having a moment.

And all of you are right, I should probably get a few more hobbies.

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