Pickup is constantly changing. There is no magic method or line to attract a girl. In fact, there are like 10 different guys teaching 10 different things. Wtf?

I will tell you the perfect pickup method in this post.The goal of meeting and attracting girls is getting from point X to point Y. Point X is seeing a girl and point Y is doing "something" with a girl. Y can be having sex, a relationship, or anything you can think of. Each pickup method is a roadmap to get you from point X to Y. You can take hundreds of routes- under the bridge, through the woods or even through the club with goggles and a feather boa. The roadmap you need to use is the one that works for you. A lot of times, you don't need a map at all.

Think of a guy in a red jacket- just a figure in a red jacket. He loves his red jacket. In fact, he wears his red jacket out to a party. He fixes himself up nicely for the party. Feeling good, happy and calm, he talks to some girls when he gets to the party. He has fun with the girls. He has a normal conversation, but the girls are loving how he is a relaxed, normal, well maintained, cool guy. He starts having fun with one girl in particular. They hook up...

End the story however you want. Point of the story was that he was "the guy in the red jacket." He was comfortable and loved who he was. Pickup helps make a guy who just chose to wear something and say something "the guy in the red jacket who likes to go out and be a overall cool person." Pickup makes you comfortable. Pickup makes you confident. SURPRISE! THERE IS NO PERFECT PICKUP METHOD!!

Are you still nervous or confused with girls? This is why you need pickup. You haven't totally changed from some random guy in a jacket to "the guy in the red jacket" yet.



Pickup has taken me on a journey beyond explanation. I was a loser with nothing to me. I have way too much to say about that for this post. I don't even know how I found pickup. If I hadn't, I would've been lost for years and never went on a crazy journey. I don't always go from point X to Y with girls, but I always have a new experience. Its fucking fun!

Us pickup artists are really nomads in life. We just wander around and change our paths from day to day. You can at least wander a new path in your red jacket because you know who you are! Evolve your interests beyond girls. Do shit for the experience. Most of the great pickup artists say that they don't have a mindset that focuses on girls. The reason is because there is ALWAYS a new path every time we try to pick up a new girl. Hopefully noone will flame this and I inspired a few people


Peace and I hope you all find your way in your red jackets!

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I agree 100% with this post.

There is no perfect pickup method but you can certainly get good at one.
When I first came here and read a lot of methods it confused me.
I constantly saw contradictory ideas.
It took me awhile but I slowly realized that there are so many ways you can learn to be consistent with women.
I personally like the Juggler Method the best as of right now because it is never a "scripted interaction" but I'm now starting to venture into a new methods.

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Sinceriously,
Serj

have you noticed how all the 'top' "PUA" 'gurus' do their OWN thing.

That is the best thing you can learn from them. That is the perfect thing... they DO their OWN thing.


What works for me stylisticly, may not be the best way for the other guy to go about things. It all comes down to your style/character/personality.



Are you a smooth talker, are you a straight to the chase no nonsense guy, are you a secretive subtle seducer, are you a cocky player, are you an edgy bad boy? What are YOU?!

Find the things that work for you, try the different things that resonate with who you are, keep trying things until it feels RIGHT. And I mean, really feels right. I don't mean 'oh that worked', I mean, 'OOH, I like this. This is me, and it works!'.

TBH, this whole thing should be a journey of self discovery, and my personal goal, which I think would be a good one for most people. Is to be able to fully express yourself and who YOU are, and maximise the effectiveness of the things that make you *you*, and don't allow yourself to be held back by fears and restrictions.


Learn to express yourself fully with an uninhibited boldness.




Done.

~Finesse

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Munroe: "I kinoed the hell out of that goat"
Jav: "bashing chodes 24/7 ftw"
Slywalker: "Neg the bagel"
Slywalker: "I had a 1yr old GF when I was 19"
SS_Trunks:I asked her for an extra pen, confidently....

Nice. I think a lot of people are dissuaded from doing this because struggling from the bottom up is too "difficult". But it's only when you trek out on your own do you really learn it all.

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