grow some balls. literally. stop trying to avoid pain: physical and emotional. shit deal with it. when people say stuff, just ignore them and if they say it again then talk back. first reason with them. tell them they are retarded for what they just did, and if they wanna start shit, then start shit. you black eye will heal in a month but your self-esteem will never heal if you pussy out. shit and stop being afraid of dying, when u die u die there aint no heaven or hell. fuck and if you really do believe in heaven or hell then u shouldn't be manipulating women into fucking them. and look girls in the eyes. look everyone in the eye. don't look at how buff they are or how fucking cute they are just look em in the eye and keep looking them. fuckkk every one of you fuckers are not a man. a man don't give a shit. put ya middle finger to everyone u want to. people are fucking pussies they will do anything to avoid conformation. just realize that. FUCK!

I voted Kill Myself, because then at least I won't be killed by others if I follow this advice.

Edit

If you aren't a troll, you need a mental health check up.

More to the point, I wonder what event happened to cause mbkb24 to post this.

so... what brought this up?

Even tough I think he is overeacting a bit. He is right !

Anger fear and aggression, the dark side of the force are they. If once you start down the dark path, forever will it dominate your destiny, consume you it will.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

You know you shouldn't care too much about what people think... if you overact you can look abit.... (mental?)

I do agree with the part where he says your eye will heal in a month but your self esteem wont. He hit the nail on the head with that one in my opinion. Pretty much what hes saying is dont let others walk all over you or say you cant do this or that or give you negative labels about yourself because they will become a part of your identity ifd you just take it in and not say or do shit about it. Doing so will develop stronger boundaries thus making you care less about what others say. If someone mistreats you call them out because if you dont your self esteem will suffer. Not for a day or a week but for a lifetime.

Let me give you an example of one of my friends. He used to be a really happy confident guy. Didnt give a fuck about what others thought. Until he lost a couple of his closest friends he became depressed and very anxious. Didnt have a social circle and didnt have any self esteem. Then one day to top things off when he was in his worst depression yet he gets called down into a room with a family friend to have a little talk. Pretty much he said alot of negative shit about this guy. How he acts like this and how he acts like that and gives him some pretty harsh wordsa about what he thinks of him and his identity. After that the kid is so fucked up he can bareley walk without shaking. Everything everyone tells to him he believes. He believes anything others tell him.

Well, to top matters all off. That person is me. That experience fucked me up so bad. The taking it in and not standing up for myself. This was 2 years ago and I think about that incident almost everyday. It really fucked me up psychologically. I am not myself anymore. I went from the guy with people calling him too always hang out to never calling me to hang out again. I went from alpha to beta. I went from confident to insecure. I went from happy to unhappy. I went from looking forward to everydya to thinking of killing myself. Seriously, guys if someone gives you shit never take it in. Always stand up for yourself. You dont want to be like me. I fucking hate myself. I find it hard to even look at myself in the mirror.

Please guys, let this be a lesson to all of you. Never take shit from nobody. Even if its your parents. Im not talking about going ape shit on them but if they dont like what your doing then tell them straight up "Dad dont talk to me like that I dont appreciate it and I find it pretty disrespectufl". Simple. If I wouldve said something to that guy in that room I probably would not be on this forum. Id still be my old confident happpy self. But thats a decision I am going to have to live with for the rest of my life. And I cant change shit about the past.

Let this be a lesson.

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Cut the shit, time to fuck.

usually the kind of people who you get in a fight with are ghetto boys, white trash whatever you wanna call them and they might got a knife or a gun if you are alone or you dont know them then i dont see y defend ur self esteem because a self esteem is how the people looks at you and i dont give a shit about a retard guy's opinion who just want to get into a fight cuz he has nothing better to do also if i ever get into a street fight i just kick them in the nuts and start to run y have a clean fight with a ghetto boy? if you are into a fight your goal is to finish the fight and get the less wound possibly not to make some fuckin friends

so i voted i kill myself b4 follow your stupid advice i hope nobody else would

hey man i feel sorry for you man
the same kinda happened to me. i was mister happy, i could score girls like quite easily. until my girlfriend broke up with me, i cried and called her (she was my closest and best friend) she said some really mean things to me which cut straight through my soul. Also we didnt initiate contact and stuff so to top things off i had also sustained broken heart syndrome. my heart hurt physically like a heart attack.
that was 5 months ago and i still cry every day about my ex girlfriend. its not that i couldnt get any hotter girl its just that i let her get away with the shit she gave me. which i shouldnt have done. i should have called her a fucking skank and yell everything at her from the ground of my heart.
i cant change it now, it is in the past. she has a new boyfriend and im still working on my self esteem.
btw i also lost my friends cuz of the depression that followed. i also lost my job and i flunked that year in college.
i hate her to death. she lied and cheated and while i was asking her not to do have sex with another guy in a polite way she totally exploded at me, nearly kicked my door in, gave me names. yelled at me in a cold way that she was way happier without me now, she never came back to even apologize or anything. i fucking hate her, and i fucking hate myself for letting it happen. i could have stopped it all. but its too late now, im just happy that slowly im pulling myself out of this dump.
i hope this shit will make me stronger in the end, what doesnt kill you makes you stronger.

oh, btw, i got in a fight short after the break up cuz i was fucked up in my head (i usually never fight) this guy hit my nose real hard. bleeding and stuff, nearly broke it.
we got in a heavy fight.
but the pain from the blow to my nose was nothing compared to the hurt i had inside.

but always keep ur chin up man. focus on the positive. lol right after the break up it was like i had entered a dark tunnel. so i focused on the light in my life and move on.
always move ur life upwards

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Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

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Feel for you man. That shit fucking sucks. Like the pain I still feel to this day is still very intense after that fucked up situation I was in. But its not nearly to what it was 2 years ago. Im slowly rebuilding myself from ground up. Reading books, working on my self esteem, changing up my beliefs, and actually going out sarging.

Im getting back in the groove of things I feel. I used to have rock solid inner game. Shit didnt affect me at all. Someone could say some shti and id be like fuck off. Now im scared to even do that when somebody disrepsects me. I feel as if I deserve it for some reason. But fuck that shit. Its all in the past. The worst thing that you can do to yourself and your self esteem is let someone walk all over you like that. Theres nothing worse that can destroy your self esteem. Of course you can lose your friends and that might be a big blow to your self esteem but when you make an identity for yourself out of what someone said that is much much more harder to overcome. You can make friends much easier than you can removing a limiting belief.

Once you have a neagtive belief about yourself it affects your whole game. The way you interact with people and all that other shit. So if some chick or anybody disrepsects you adn says somethiong negative about your identity or who you are tell them straight up to not do that shit ever again. That way you still maintain your self esteem and even grow in it and you develop much stronger boundaries. Its fucked up sometimes the shit people these days would do to bring someone down. It really is.

Coming from the ethnic background im from I was taught to always listen to grown ups and what they said. At the age of 16 a grown up completeley took advantage of me and hit me with blows nobody has ever hit me with before. And I couldnt do shiot about it because I was conditioned by my parents to listen and agree with everything they say. Now thats a whole different story. I learned the hard way lets just say. And when I grow up and have my own kids ill make sure to do these 2 things. The first, I will never do what that guy did to me and take advantage of not fully matured kids. And the second, I will teach my kids not to take shit from anybody so they dont go through what I went through.

Get better man. I appreciate your feedback. & good luck on your journey.

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Cut the shit, time to fuck.

First thing, take a step back, your obviously very upset, try and remain calm and think what productive things you can do that will make a difference , getting angry and aggressive isn't going to help...it will only make things worse.
The truth is, if what you need to be happy is justice and fairness, you are not going to be happy in this lifetime, the fact is, the most qualified person does not always get the promotion, innocent people do get robbed and murdered, this is life, shit happens....the important thing is...how YOU deal with the shit that happens, you can fight for justice in a situation if there is some way you can, but the one thing you have to realise is, the biggest way you can make a difference to the experience you have in life is how you interpret things, that middle ground between you and the things that happen. THIS is what you have complete control over.

In this link you will find things you can actually DO to change this, if you really are pissed off and want to make a change, brilliant, but if you really want to then make a fucking effort and do these things, nothing worth having comes easy...otherwise, everyone would have it.

practical-attainment-of-inner-game-cont ... ght=hobbit

I cant really comment on the heaven or hell thing, that's your call what you choose to believe, but as far as pick up, your not manipulating anyone, your presenting yourself in the best possible way you can....yes some methods do try to make you put up a fake image that isn't you but these are ones you just have to avoid.
A real man doesn't put a middle finger to every1 and do the whole fuck the world thing, a little sad man trying to act like a real man does this.
A real man is confident enough to act whatever way he feels comfortable, he is able to express his personality and go after the things he wants whatever that may be.


You mention a lot about confrontation, you definatley need to stick up for yourself and have some self respect, but this DOES NOT mean you go looking for confrontation and fights every chance you get.

Imagine there's a movie theatre in your mind and on the screen is an event, and watching this screen are the future versions of you, you 1 week from now, you 2 weeks from now, you 1 year on....you get the picture, the event...some guy pushes you in a bar, now you can apologize and slither of like a little bitch or you can stand up for yourself, you stand up for yourself and the future versions of you watching the screen change, you 1 week from now becomes more confident and you 1 year on has a tear in his eye because he's so proud, what you do NOW effects what you will be in the future.

The bottom line is no matter whoever you come across and whatever they think of you, will have some tiny effect on you, but, what you think of yourself will have a ENORMOUS effect on you now and how you will be in the future.


You have to have self respect, if you put a low value on yourself the world sure as hell ain't gonna raise your price, but right now it seems like you feel every other person you meet is trying to fight you, so you sticking up for yourself right now would lead to a hella lot of arguments and fights, this is where the exercises come in, if you really wanna make a change DO THEM, you will no longer feel everyone is trying to argue and fight with you and any confrontation you get into will more than likely be justified, right now you arguing with ever person you think has wronged you somehow, is not the best thing to do you'll just be hurting yourself even more.

You now have access to things you can do that will make a huge difference weather you want to do them or not...that's up to you.

Ezo, mentally chuckle to the maximum extent reading this made me, love you I do x

You're a real Jedi Pimp Ezo, that's why I respect you!

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