Every time I venture into the General forum I always see a billion post where some guy typed up a novel detailing (often in painstakingly detail) his situation with some certain girl.

If that sounds like you, stop that shit!

Its very rare for anyone with experience to sit there and read thru that shit. Not enough hours in a day to sit and read people "novels" and then help them all. Most of the people that do answer those big long post often times don't have enough experience to give you a relevant answer anyways.

It comes down to this: posting questions regarding "this one girl" is silly. Learn to get good with women in general and you wont have to ask these kinds of questions anymore.

The right kind of question to ask: "Guys, I've managed to pull three girls home in the last week but I got LMR every time... what gives?"

See the difference between that question and questions regarding some specific woman? The good question is about women in general and will help you get better with women in general.

So, what do you do if you are wondering what to do about some specific girl? Use what you have learned thus far to make a decision (you don't need us to hold your hand) and then do what you think is best.

If it works out, GREAT! You learned something. If it doesn't work out, GREAT! You learned something.

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this is by some dude name roosh:


1. If you find yourself having to ask for advice on how to get a particular girl, you won’t get her.

I mentioned this before in Be That Guy

I was trying to bang this girl and she was being very flakey and taking forever to get back to me. I asked my friend what I should do about it and we proceeded to go over my options after I told him everything that had transpired so far.

At the end I thought, “Is she doing this with her friends right now? Is she asking her friend how to get with me? Is she asking her friend how to get me to stop flaking?”

Of course not.

I looked back even farther and noticed that with almost every girl I asked a friend advice for, I didn’t eventually bang her. When you are prepared to ask advice on how to deal with a particular girl, what you’re doing is valuing her, and that’s the fastest way to not bang her. Some of the emails I get are mini-books where the guy painfully details the situation he’s suffering through and then asks for help. I’ll give it but I know the situation isn’t going to turn out in his favor. The reason he’s asking is because he already lost the upper hand by making a ton of mistakes.

To improve your game what you should do instead is ask for advice after the fact. Do the best you can then after you fail ask a buddy what he would have done differently. Learn from your mistakes once you’ve given your all, because if you find yourself needing to ask advice during the seduction, I’m sorry but you’ve already lost her. Take a big step back and go meet another girl instead.

Play the game with what you have learned from the past. Don’t be a pussy and give blow-by-blow details to your buddy hoping it will somehow help you.

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I think this thread needs to be sticky so all the noobs can read it.
This is EXACTLY my thoughts on the matter too.

I use to take the time to read them, then i just got annoyed at any post longer than a few lines.

Im a culprit of this and I have realised that any girl you tend to ask advice for - I haven't got (just like the guy above me who said something akin to this).

However; sometimes you can HAVE options but its the girl you cant get that you want - something im familiar with. Its a question of wanting what you cant have.

Yes, I don't even bother reading them anymore

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