A lot of posts I've seen in general questions recently concern the sole topic of how to get your ex-girlfriend back. This has probably been the case forever and ever, but I feel the need to debunk the question. Or at least create a topic that we can just link to whenever someone has a question of this ilk.

So, you want to get your ex back? How about you answer one question: why is she your ex in the first place? Why isn't she still your girlfriend? Admittedly there could be several reasons, but here is the one that always seems to be the case on these forums:

It's because you have dissimilar value. As in, you're a 3 at heart, and she's a 7 at heart. Two psychologically healthy people don't stay in relationships in which their values are too dissimilar. The higher value person dumps the lower value person.

Now here's the application: when you want to get your ex back, learning a few routines will not make you a different person. You'll have the same value as when you got dumped. Doing a few routines right may get you back with her, because you can fake value. That's how a lot of MM'ers start out.

But you cannot fake it forever. The truth will come out. The longer the relationship, the more obvious your real value becomes to the girl.

The way you get your ex girlfriend back is by becoming at least equal value to her. But, the way most of us choose to do this is by practicing PUA. We get so caught up in it that, the next time your ex sees you, SHE'S the lower value person. Then she chases you, and YOU get rid of HER.

Now. You can learn a couple routines, get your ex back, and then ask us on general questions what to do after her every move. Then she will put a shit test out there, you'll fail it miserably and get dumped. OR. You can go into pickup and become higher value. That's the long-term solution. Your choice.

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