I had a huge realization today. That realization was that in order to get the things you want in life you have to do the exact opposite. This can relate to women, emotions, etc. In order to get the woman you have to show value and dont put all the value on her. This is where negs, cocky funny, etc come in. Regarding our emotional life in order to get over our emotions we dont run away from them but instead embrace them and feel them through.

Grieving is a great way to start experiencing your real emotions. In order to get over a certain loss or a certain somebody who has left us during our lives we have to feel it all the way through. When we repress it it then becomes unconscious and takes control of our lives. Whatever we repress shows up in our lives later. If we just accept everything as it is we wouldnt have any negative emotions. Wed let them flow through us and therefore experience them and get over them.

Repressing is the worst thing you can do. It will stay stuck in you until you adress it for what it is. Once you feel out your emotions a much better and more satisfying emotional life will open up for you. Everything we experience is a part of life. Everyone goes through it. If we dont have failures then what would be the point of success? If we dont experience loss whats the point of loving someone?

Pick-Up is simply not about picking up women its about changing lives. Pick-Up is all about improving yourself. Its about making your life better. Its about making you more fullfilled. Right now, Pick-Up is turning more of a self-improvement movement rather than anything else. This is where all of the successes come in once you improve yourself to the point where your satisfied with yourself. You dont need external validation to make you happy. You are happy right where you are with who you are.

You need to make your own life better first before you can make others' lives better. Once you feel good about yourself others will feel good around you. Once you love yourself others will love you. Once you accept yourself others will accept you. If you want to make a girl feel good you have to feel good about yourself simple as that.

Here answer all of these questions honestly and work on the things you need to improve. These things will lead you to a more satisfying and fullfilling life.

Do you have a relationship that nurtures you?
Is your sex life satisfactory?
Am I in a job that is fullfilling?
Am I in a living situation that is comfortable?
Do I have a healthy lifestyle with no addictions?
Do I have satisfactory connections with family and friends including physical holding?
Do I have hobbies or engage in activities, for example sports, that enliven me?
Am I living with integrity,honesty,and a good conscience?
Am I making a contribution to the world by being of service to others?
Have I found a spirituality or religion that feeds my soul?
Am I in a positive enviroment with positive people?
Do I have a safe place to go to where I can talk my problems out with somebody?
Do I have a safe place where I can go when im stressed out?

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