My way of looking at "SHITTEST", hope you agree



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 8:04 pm 
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I have some kind of a new way of looking at a shitest.
When she shitesting you, she doesn't really shittesting you, she is trying to disqualify you and see if you can handle it. So you should disqualify her back,
for example "I have a boyfriend",
You say "That's fine, this relation were never going to a sexual direction, you will never have a chance with me. But it's fine you will be a nice friend!"

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 8:42 pm 
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You're making a valid point, but the subject in question is too broad to be assigned a specific reply relevant to every shit test out there.

It all really, really depends on the situation and the shit test you are being given. In fact, most of the times, shutting up and ignoring the test completely is the best solution.

But I think that disqualification can be used in certain situations just perfectly.


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I like how Gambler responds to shit test. His C&F is nice. I could see him doing something like this...

Her: I have a boyfriend.
Gambler: Oh.. me too baby. We have something in common. (Tongue n Cheek)

Shutting up also works. Lots of ways you can handle it. I don't know which is the best. Shutting up, for me at least, is boring.

Her: I have a boyfriend.
Me: ............
Her: .......
Me: Anyways, like I was saying...

I can see how it's affective, but I like the first way better. Why? Because with the first method you're sparking an emotion in her while passing her test. The 2nd doesn't seem to do much with her emotions, but does pass the test.


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I can see how it's affective, but I like the first way better. Why? Because with the first method you're sparking an emotion in her while passing her test. The 2nd doesn't seem to do much with her emotions, but does pass the test.
First option will give you a witty/funny way of passing the shit test. The second option will provide you with tension.

So now the question is whether you choose to be the entertainer or the seducer.


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I can see how it's affective, but I like the first way better. Why? Because with the first method you're sparking an emotion in her while passing her test. The 2nd doesn't seem to do much with her emotions, but does pass the test.
First option will give you a witty/funny way of passing the shit test. The second option will provide you with tension.

So now the question is whether you choose to be the entertainer or the seducer.
I think it depends on the situation. Say you're at a star bucks, you see a girl with her friends and you start chatting her up. She throws a shit test at you. It's probably best to respond C&F.

Say you're out with a girl to the movies. She throws a shit test at you. Silence would be best used here.


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Shit tests are lovely.


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 25, 2011 4:53 am 
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i'de just say

"me too"

and watch her laugh hysterically


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 25, 2011 4:55 am 
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i'de just say

"me too"

and watch her laugh hysterically


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 25, 2011 9:49 am 
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A good example that I used in one of my FR's:

Her: I have a boyfriend
Me: Great, but I don't want a relationship with him, just with you.

Smile & blink... got her number and kissed a few days later.

There's no NEED to be rough about it.. if you can laugh it away showing you got a bit of an attitude, she'll be more receptive to you.

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I can see how it's affective, but I like the first way better. Why? Because with the first method you're sparking an emotion in her while passing her test. The 2nd doesn't seem to do much with her emotions, but does pass the test.
First option will give you a witty/funny way of passing the shit test. The second option will provide you with tension.

So now the question is whether you choose to be the entertainer or the seducer.
I think it depends on the situation. Say you're at a star bucks, you see a girl with her friends and you start chatting her up. She throws a shit test at you. It's probably best to respond C&F.

Say you're out with a girl to the movies. She throws a shit test at you. Silence would be best used here.
Completely agreeing with this. Look at my very first reply on the topic, sentence number 2.


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