Gentlemen,
Lately, in my exploits, I've come across a few girls who are particularly inclined to play hard to get after I have slept with them. In one case I slept with a girl in the evening and in the morning, she bought me lunch and took me to work. But they all do the same thing, I send them a text message, they respond the next day, we exchange a few texts and then they stop talking in the middle of the convo. While I've learned my lesson about not trying to carry a conversation too far, my question is when a girl ends contact during a texting exchange....how long before you should call or text again.....when they're obviously playing the "chase me" game I figured a week is appropriate; however I wanted to see if the forum has come to a consensus.

regards,
Dizzler

My girl tries to do the exact same thing to me. But generally because she's angry at me...it's interesting when you mix love and hate. Rule 1: don't let her win.

If you have been going out, or go out regularly, i never have conversations through text. To me, texting is reserved to keep me in her mind and to arrange meets.
I send a message, to which she responds, but only sometimes i respond in turn. Basically, most of the time, she sends the last text.
Doesn't that sound just like what some of the girls you mentioned do to you? And does that make you confused and think about them even more? Interesting...

Now, to address your situation: if you begin to send less texts, each text becomes more valuable. Once you do that, and she doesn't respond to these more valuable and scare texts, then it might become a problem. But it doesn't seem to be the case right now.

What I would be more concerned about is if you call and she doesn't answer, and she doesn't call you back. In such situations, i wouldn't intiate any contact for a week. That means her weekend was spent without you. She'll get tired of that quickly and start behaving.

Man, you go from fucking to texting. She misses the action. I try to meet up with her some days after the first time you have fucked.

But if she is playing hard to get, just play better. I Let her wait. Its like I lose interest. If shes gonna be annoying, she can be annoying alone. If she starts behaving, she is welcome back!

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

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Why are you playing games.

Jesus Christ.

You've already banged her. Do you want your entire relationship with her to be a load of games and analysing FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!?

Once you both have accepted each other just chill. Bang her if you want, love her if you want, etc. If they are going after sex, you are not offering enough value or you are not an interesting person or do not have enough core value or a good personality. Also get better in bed/at sex.

If you keep trying to "game" her, she will keep trying to "game" you.

You get what you give.

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