Alright, so recently I have been getting flaked. By guys. I try to talk and connect then I ask for their number and they give it to me. Their like we should chill somertime heres my number call me whenever bro. Im like all right. And when I do they never pick up and then the next day they act like I never even called them when I did.

For example, theres this kid I know and recently we were supposed to hang out. During lunch were talking about girls, parties, and whatnot then he asks me yo do you have my number? Im like no then he gives it to me. The next day which is a friday I call him up, send him a text message, and leave him a voicemail in a span of about 3 hours. The first was the text obviously then the voicemail. He doesnt call back.

Another example was when a "Friend" of mine told me to call him on the date of the concert we were going. I call him at about 4 no answer. I call some other people I know and no answer. Then I just end up going to the concert by myself hoping to meet people in which I did.

The last example is probably the worst. I transferred schools and pretty much knew noone at my school. During gym class I overheard some kid talking about smoking weed and since I occasionally do it I hopped in on the convo. They seemed cool and their was a party the same night. Also, there was a football game. So, I was like so you guys going to the game tonight? There like yeahh. Im like would you guys wanna meet up? Their like yeahh. Im like cool whats your #? He gives me the number and I call him up. Fortunateley he picks up and is like yo ill be over there in like 10. Im like all right. So im waiting there at the football game with a ton of people I dont fucking know with nobody to talk too. Then I call him 15 minutes later. He doesnt pick up. I text him where you at he answers im here. Im like where? No answer. So the rest of the night I was fucking ditched and felt like a complete loser. I felt as if something was wrong with me.

I realized this is one of the biggest problems im facing right now in my life and thats flakiness. How would you guys handle this kind of flakiness from people?

Thanks