Alright, so it is me, paramount. Yes, this is a race thread BUT, it isn't a race thread.

This time I am not fantasizing, this time, I have actually:

1. Done approaches
2. Improved my appearance and style
3. Got my head right
4. Have taken care of the insecurity that was

NOTICE number 1. Here is an issue I keep having though.

Whenever I approach girls who are unfamiliar with my culture (Indian guy btw), I have A LOT of success. I mean I get numbers, kisses, dates, etc. I have noticed that such girls tend to be curious and want to get to know about me. Now whenever I approach a girl who is friends with an Indian girl and hangs out with them, I have A LOT OF FAILURES.

Like today, in a class of mines there is this cute brunette who I saw. She sits with and talks to this Indian girl and stuff. Well, I have had her in my class for 2 weeks now. So I approach her at the library when she is sitting down with her friend (who is Indian). I ask her a question about an assignment, the two ignore me.

Well, this hasn't just happened once. It happened to me 2 other times. In one case the girl was Asian and her friends were two Indian girls, both Americanized. In another case the girl was Black/White mixed and her friends were, you guessed it, Americanized Indian girls.

I have read online that when Asian girls and Indian girls tend to get Americanized, they hate and talk a whole lot of crap about men of their own background. For a while I did not believe it but a friend of mines (white), told me when he was sitting down with this brunette who I approach, her Indian friend was telling her the horrors of Indian men.

Is it just my minimal experience or is it that bad?

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

Yes, this is still a race thread.

You are working with a very small sample size of like 4-5 instances. Keep going.

There, I fixed it for you.

Women talk a whole lot of crap about men, all types of men. It's just one more way for them to get attention. That's pretty normal. Hell, it's usually deserved since a lot of men are relationship-impaired. Furthermore, western culture rewards this type of behavior (the feminist movement here was not that long ago).

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

Paramount, I know what you mean. It's immature for those girls to generalize an entire race of men based on a few bad seeds/experiences/what they hear. I've heard all sorts of horror stories from Vietnamese women who complain about how Vietnamese men are womanizers and are arrogant and cocky. I look at them with a hint of skepticism though because they're probably saying that from their own personal experiences and are just extremely bitter. So that makes me ask who's more wrong here? The men who's behavior is consistent or the women who fall for that shit?

I've had my fair share of disappointments with Vietnamese women and sometimes I think to myself I'm never dating a Viet girl again. But that's the wrong approach to the situation. Despite the bullshit that comes out of their mouths, I'll approach a fine looking Viet woman to start a conversation regardless of what they think.

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Pretty little girls, so used to getting your way. Along comes a man who challenges you, and suddenly you don't know what to say.

I would not date an Indian girl period, even if she was a super model, no matter how attractive, I will not date her. But the thing is, they are messing up my chances with other women.

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

The stupidity of this statement makes my brain hurt.

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

That might be true, but there are ways around that. What women say/think/believe is completely different from what (or who for that matter) they will do.

As for their rudeness, I would have called them out on that. There are a lot of threads here on diffusing a bitch shield. Unless they're wearing headphones or in a loud conversation (which they're obviously not since you were in a library), that's complete disrespect on their end.

Another thing, how are you approaching these girls? Are you giving them any reason to ignore you?

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Pretty little girls, so used to getting your way. Along comes a man who challenges you, and suddenly you don't know what to say.

No. You haven't. You still have one based on what I'm reading here. You believe that the stereotypes spread by the female gender of your race is stopping your progress with women. You need to let go of that mentality.

When someone else eats, does it make you shit? Think about it.

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Pretty little girls, so used to getting your way. Along comes a man who challenges you, and suddenly you don't know what to say.

I just finished reading a few more of your posts and I'm getting the feeling my words are just going to fall on deaf ears.

Moving on to the next thread.

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Pretty little girls, so used to getting your way. Along comes a man who challenges you, and suddenly you don't know what to say.

I couldnt have said it better myself! Pass go and collect one rep point bro!

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

then don't read it, there is dumber crap out there, way dumber

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

Hey Paramount buddy, I am from India originally but have stayed in USA since my teenage years. I think I can answer your question. I think you are correct - the americanized indian girls do not like indian males, why? because many of them are thinking of their father as the typical indian male. their fathers most likely left from india decades ago, around the time i left. at that point, india was a very different place. it was extremely conservative. the things that are very common here in america such as provocative dressing, dating, premarital sex, were unthinkable in those times. Hell, I was not even allowed to talk to girls that were not related to me. that is just the society we grew up in. Things have changed drastically in india over the past 30 years, especially in the big cities that are not only becoming very rich and modernized, but very socially progressive as well. Howevr majority of indians still live in Rural environments where the old conservative mentalities are still present. Most of these girls parents came from that age, and therefore when they arrived here they were very strict with their daughters. that would be no problem when that is the norm in society, but in america it is not the norm, hence there is a clash. so that leads to conflict between the daughters and their dads and overall hatred for indian culture, unfairly so. this is what I feel is the root cause of your problem.

Only one who is messing up ur chance with other women is you my friend.

Also I find ur racism against Indian women to be a bit offensive. If u want girls to be attracted to You, you need to respect yourself. If you are constantly badmouthing Indian culture and Indian girls and everything Indian, then you are going to come off to the girl as a self-hater. No girls like someone who hates themselves! Regardless of what u do you are always going to be indian. When the girl looks at you the first thought will pop in her mind is that guy is INDIAN. So instead of hating ur heritage U should embrace it and then u will find more luck with women. If ur language conveys that U urself think indians are bad then that means to the girl you think urself is bad!!

Wish u all good luck, bhai.

how about no

you aren't going to force me to like what I don't like, get out of here with that idea

I am trying to deal with cock blockers

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

Racism, cockblockers, female friends

So is it everybody else's fault you aren't getting laid but yours?