When was the last time a girl told you that?

For the most of you it's probably been a long time.

This is a real problem.

Most of us are not used to women walking up to us and telling us that we are hot, cute, sexy, attractive or anything complimentary as like.

In fact, the majority of PUAs I've run into are not used to the idea of women finding them attractive.

The problem doesn't hit you until something changes.

What do we do when suddenly a women DOES find us attractive?

Too often I see people freeze up and not know what to do when they actually have a woman and she shows clear signs of attraction. Where do you go? What do you do? What can you say?

It is at this point people usually screw things up.

Because we are not used to women finding us attractive we do not know what to do when a woman DOES find us attractive, suddenly we are in unfamiliar territory, we freeze up.

It's the paradox that we all must face down when we begin to become successful, how do you deal with success?

So the question is, how will you deal with success?

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Anyone can walk into a bar and pick up a random girl.
The trick is to make the experience unforgettable to her.
A real PUA will make every women he encounters feel like she experience something once in a lifetime.

girl: "you're so hot"
you: "well, don't expect me to keep you warm at night"

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

I never think much of the compliments I get.

I mean, I say thank you and that's it. I don't milk it or come up with a cheesy line.

Imo the reason for it is because they want something from you and/or they backward rationalize you being hot to justify the reason why they like you so much.


I don't feel bitter about it or scorned, if she's fun I don't mind.

say thanks, return a compliment if shes of interest to you, and play the game like always.

initial attraction makes things easier, but you still have to win her like any other

I get quite a few compliments on my looks, I dress well, work out and am lucky to have decent genetics. From my experience there is only one way to deal with this:
YOU: "Thank you"
*kino*

Really is that simple.

i have only ever had girls tell me this in relationships. i don't think most women would find me attractive, even when i'm well groomed.