So there's a couple reasons I'm going to write this up. I was in the chat earlier, after a good bit of hating the community, and the conversation got me thinking about an old post of mine. So I dug it up, and updated some tidbits, deleted others, and added a dash of maturity. My hope is that people will actually read it in its entirety. With that said, enjoy

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JOIN me... as I step back to when I discovered the Community.... I had everything going for me... or at least that's what every adult seemed to think. Rephrased, I was intelligent, spent time working at school, didn't have too many friends, had hardly talked to girls, My sex life? How do you describe that which doesn't exist? It must be great to be me right?

I met HER. The one. She's great, smart, cute, intelligent.... Best of all, she TALKS to me. Now I'm young, and I probably won't _marry_ her (funny how I even thought of marriage...), but I think I *really* want to date her. Her name was XXXX (removed for privacy issues). Now I just have to figure out how to get her to want to date me too... Enter the community.

I came in looking for the answer. there had to be an answer. How did all those other guys get girls? They had something I didn't, and I wanted it. Now if I could just get the people here to spill the beans...

I give up. I'm not going to get this. I can't seem to figure it out. I guess I'm just doomed to a woman-less future.

Time went by. The world continued, and eventually I got it. I had FINALLY found what I'd been searching for. It took years. I'd moved on from her. She moved on to me. But I figured out what the the Community had been preaching to me for years, and I tried to force everyone else to realize what it was.

No one got it. I was fedup. I left.

***I came back, and left each time soon after. Now 6 months away, here I am again...***

What was it that I preached so intently? I chose silence . It's no secret. Those who care to look, will find it. But only those who realize what it means will understand.

But this does have a point, and I beg you listen to my plea. It is easy to see There is no quick fix. What's harder to see, not so obvious, is you can fix it faster. All it takes is some help. Enter the community.. and all the help you could need... A community filled with emotion. So much anger...defensiveness...disgust... all from a "Community" claiming to not be evil?

PUA is about more than sleeping with women, or getting the one girl to like you. PUA is about bettering lifestyle. PUA is about bettering your self. PUA is about becoming everything you've ever wanted, without compromise. Getting the girl is a mere side-effect.
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Why hate the devil's advocate? Why refute a different viewpoint on a situation? Why harbor hatred for those who can help? Why make it harder to figure out the answer? These questions go on and on...

The answer to each of the questions posed is simply this:
THERE IS NO REASON. There is no reason for any of this in any Community.
So with that said, My challenge to you is this:

Remove unnecessary emotion from the Community. This forum...this lifestyle...this Community... it all exists to help. Leave your emotion at the door. We are not here to ridicule, nor are we here to be ridiculed.

Think about it.

Think about what you want to achieve... What you hope for from the Community...Why you're here. Think about where you are, and what you're doing... Think about your past and how it lead to the present. Think about what you're doing, and if it's leading to the future you want.

The Community is a tool. Don't abuse it. Don't forget about it. And like any tool, used correctly you can achieve the impossible.

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Mimicking an artist never leads to true success... However becoming an artist mimicked is true success

I stopped reading after I saw the different font sizes.

I think this is the part that at least most guys should understand and live.

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Jav:
The font sizes are quite intentional. So much is lost when reading plain text. The changes are there to provide cues as to how I would have enunciated if it was spoken.

Hobbs... you know me. Out and about, here and there, inside my cave. Who knows where I'll be, or for how long

xfman, It's like I said, some will get it, some wont. Reading it again though, it's a pretty piss poor job of sneaking my intended topic in there... Sticks out like a sore thumb

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Mimicking an artist never leads to true success... However becoming an artist mimicked is true success

I want to elaborate on this.

I don't think emotion is the root cause. The emotion spawns from our need to protect our ego.

ex:
You hear some guy say "You have to read some forums to learn how to pick up women? What a noob."

So to protect your ego, you'll retort with some smart comment. Or ridicule him back.

Hey, it's cool to do with you friends because you can smile and laugh and there is no malicious intent. But on a forum it's harder. But is should be easier, because usually these guys are just faces on the Internet and they know nothing about you.

some people sometime use the community to project there current emotional state onto. Its nothing personal.
I guess if people would spend less time projecting we would get allot more relevant information from the community though.

Interesting style of writing. A mind fuck, with a touch of intrigue to it.