Disclaimer: if you're opposed to strip clubs, then just ignore this post. I have friends who would never step foot in one. They feel "dirty"... but we're all free to do what we want.
I've been to one of the top stripclubs in my home-city a couple times.
The first time I went to this one, my friend gave me fifty $1 bills, 2 or 3 pitchers of beer, and I bought myself a $20 lapdance. FUN TIMES. Last night I only spent ten bucks for entry and a few beers, and chatted with the ladies. Very good entertainment for cheap, you arent required to spend a ton of money
Most of the dancers there are model-like, tall, skinny, fit, good face, wearing heels and a thong. Top is optional
Perhaps a garter belt or stockings. 9 out of 10 of the ones last night were like this:
I know all they really want is for you to tip them and buy a lapdance, but it still feels nice to chat with them. I find it great practice for flirting and interacting with girls who would basically be some of the hottest girls at any bar. My friend I go with is a regular there, and knows every single person who works there, so that kind of helped me out. There were 3 different girls last night who kept coming to me, flirting, and of course trying to give a lapdance.
GREAT KINO PRACTICE TOO.. they are almost always touchy, so it'd be weird if you didn't touch her back at all. One kept rubbing my nipples. Another kept swooning my hair. Another one sat on my lap...etc.
It really helps to tweak my mindset about really hot girls. Of course, they're just people like the rest of us, and we all grow up almost in fear of girls with beauty. I'm becoming less and less intimidated by these hotties. Building these reference experience basically builds confidence for approaching girls of this caliber
I find that approaching only the hottest girls in the bars, and hitting on hot strippers is much better for my game than gaming any girl I can, settling for a 6 that has 20 lbs of extra fat on her body. Of course if you're only option is the 7 sitting alone, show just as much interest in her. But when I go to the bars there are always the UGO's... then the girls who really stand out from the rest.
EDIT: I'd like to add that I was gaming them, but with not outcome oriented. I figure it takes much more practice than a few hours to successfully game strippers to a close.
Although, I forgot to talk about the part where you become non-reactive to their hard-to-resist requests. It's very hard to say no to a cute girl giving you puppy dog looks for 10 mins straight, wanting to give a lapdance.
Last night, I had to basically say "maybe later" or "i dont know if I like you enough" (with smile) to still show interest and add some mystery.
This ties into being unreactive. Unreactive to their huge level of female energy.
I was trying to use ways to add real attraction, and not be some lame customer and it does help that i'm not a 40 year old married guy. She would ask a question, i'd say one word and pause for a solid 5 seconds, making her much more interested. When asked "what do you do for work?" i'd continue to stare her in the eye, look away while smiling for a solid 5 seconds, and say "ummmm"... look around, "wait, what do i do?" looking back at her. I'd finally tell her I went to ____ university. She seemed quite interested. I also made her guess to some of the questions.
I also would tap into childhood memories as much as possible. "oh my gosh, dont you remember when you was little and heard this song on the radio while your mom drove?" and such
CHAT
