The number two.

Gentlemen, I think I've found the root at which all of what is life stems from.

The concept of two.



I've suffered from the most malignant, toxic, destructive negativity for most of my life, and at the same time, I've experienced such wonderful, awesome, miraculous positive blessings as well.

Humans are a dynamic. We are all made of atoms, and all atoms have two key components that keep the nucleus in balance: Positive and Negative. Protons and Electrons (And neutrons, but we'll skip those for now).

Everything in life is both a clash and a unison. It's alliance, and deception. Fight, and flee. Win, and lose. AFC, or MPUA.

I'll assume most of you are aware of human duality, and how Ying and Yang work.


...positive and negative attitudes determine what you get out of life. If you focus on the positive, you will beget positive results. If you focus on the negative, you will beget negative results.

I've learned the nature of the human mind, in terms of the conscious and subconscious. Our conscious is simply the activity we are aware of, and have control over. The subconscious is what we're unaware of, and this is where both our positive and negative self-behaviors and attitudes stem from.

The subconscious cannot differentiate between fact and fiction. If I tell myself I have green skin long enough, I will see myself as a green skinned monster, even though it's not reality; I would still be a full-fleshed human being.

Likewise, if I reinforce negative thoughts into my head, I become negative.

Likewise again, if I saturate and bombard my brain with uplifting, positive, amazing thoughts, I am positive, even thought I may be in a crisis, or a horrible period in the present.


...Then, luckily, one of Dr.Phil's 10 life laws flashed into my head: "Life is not cured, it is managed".

Managed...

You don't choose happiness, and STAY happy. Happiness is a pursuit; a management project; one that lasts until you're dead.

Positive happiness is when you're content with who you are, and absolve yourself of all worldly exposures. Positive happiness is being screwed over, mutilated, mocked, spit on, abused, and ripped of all joy you should of had, and convincing yourself you're still alive, have so many wonderful assets, and can still be a blessing to people in the future. Positive happiness is admiring your life, your fortune, your family, your blessings, your personality, your peace, your accomplishments, your friends, your girlfriends, your lifestyle, your forward movement, your happiness, your joy, your wealth, your health, your love...your light, a radiant sun within the shell of god's image. (Corny, but I don't care. I love my corniness).

PUA works, and it does not work. Depends on your frame of mind.

I now believe that, if I keep positive enough, and manage my positivty through negative times, I will be able to succeed in any area. Girls will come automatically, opportunities will shine brightly...


Positive begets the opposite of not positive. Simple as that.

The power of mind... I like this kind of posts.

Remember: "sarging doesn't start when you arrive to the venue, it start in the morning, when you wake up... "(When you motivate yourself, to be positive)

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How about threes?
The third being balance.

Explains the neutron in atoms, but more importantly, brings the idea of balance into play.

example: You have AFC on one side, and mPUA on the other.
Sure, getting fully immersed into PUAism can be a great thing at first, in terms of turning your life around. But too much of anything is bad for the soul.

There's a middle ground to everything, and by following the rule of two's, you're limiting yourself to the extremes.

Now, some people may read that and interpret it as an excuse to be lazy. "I won't go out because I need to balance my sarging"

No. wrong.

Last night I went out with my cousin and some friends. Pick up didn't cross my mind once that night, I was just there to have fun. It's nice to let go like that sometimes, since I tend to analyze social environmental with tactical precision, which is unfortunately an extreme. But last night, I was just a regular everyday AC (AFC minus the frustration :P)

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You know, I was just getting to that.

I'm renaming the thread. Instead of two, it'll be 2.3.

I realized the third aspect, which was, as you said, balance.

You can choose one way, or the opposite of one way, but there is a third force at work. That force is emotion.

You have two logical choices, all influenced by one emotional center of being.

Sure, it would be obvious for us to automatically choose the "right" answer, but do we even know what the right answer is? Who defined "right"?

You know what...scrap that. Who cares?

Let's get back to a practical application:

I'm at the club, and I'm talking to a really hot girl. My choices are: Seduce or NOT seduce. Apparently, I want to seduce her, otherwise, what in God's name am I doing in a club?

But...what's this? I can't decide? Seduce her...wait, maybe she doesn't like you. Or...fuck it, go in anway. Have game...but, do I have enough? Maybe I should go back...aw fuck it, I'm a man. I have balls, I'll be alright...but you got rejected the last time, you'll fail for sure. Forget about it...but this is a new situation. I love to move forward. This will be good...but...

But, but, but...

A switch in the flow. Something is pulling you back and forth. The outcome is uncertain. Do you go, or NOT go. Do you fuck, or NOT fuck. Do you risk rejection, or NOT risk rejection? Any other rationalization is both a lie and a complex addition to a REALLY easy problem.

Do, or do not. There is no try.

Yoda speaks truth. Trying is merely a limbo of emotional uncertainty. Left, right...go righ...wait, check lef...no, right...left....if I don't take right, I take left...aw fuck.

The triangle. There are two choices, one decision. Two paths, one traveller. Reward, risk, and recipient.

...Oh god I think I found the secret...

Guys, help me here. Offer your views. I'm setting up a night to go out next weekend. I am field testing this shit...

I am the decider. My choices are: Achieve positive result, or NOT achieve positive result. Neither is right, neither is wrong...but positive results will accelerate my life, while NOT positive results will keep my life mediocre, or worse, slow it down to a halt.

Go to bar, or NOT go to bar.
Go up to girl, or NOT go up to girl.
Be confident, or NOT be confident.
Fuck, or NOT fuck.

Simple, yet complex.
Easy, yet difficult.
Obvious, yet hidden

...we are our own worst enemy. When we admit we know nothing, and I mean NOTHING...but what is right now, that is when we know EVERYTHING. Our world is a bubble. The simplest truth is covered in a veil of true love and false idols. We are fed what is irrelevant, and sent millions of conflicting messages, go here, but go there, but if you go there, this happens, which causes this, which can be healed by this, or this, which is not this, that can cause that, which is what this isn't, that which not that has this already been proven by this and that....


FUCK IT ALL!
Do or do not. That is all that is NEEDED.

...now for application.

Staying positive is incredibly powerful but there are depths to positivity and the human mind. The past is one of the biggest roadblocks to feeling positivity. One of the biggest hangups I have run into is the pattern of associating positivity with results with women. Here is the thing. You can stay positive at all times, and lets say you meet someone you really connect with. You can continue to stay positive throughout the whole interaction and think that this is going to work for you. The problem is when you associate the results with BEING positive. You can easily start to think that the world owes you something because you were positive.

A man's true character is not being positive when things are going his way, but being positive when nothing is going his way. Being positive because he is choosing to be, not because he is expecting results. All of us want the same things. We have little niche differences but overall we just want to be fulfilled. Staying positive is the best way to start our paths to fulfillment.

Staying positive is state control. True power lies in the ability to reframe current circumstances, the past and everything else that enters into your life so that you view it in a positive way. Just because your girlfriend dumped you or a girl rejects you DOESN'T mean you even did anything wrong. At the end of the day, you should just assume that she was not ready for what you offered and STAY POSITIVE.

I love reading posts like these because it is interesting to develop an attitude about life that brings success. But that shouldn't be our motivations. We shouldn't do anything because we expect some certain result, because we just WANT to feel positive. Life is too short to be sad, upset, feel like the victim or otherwise blame others. If people don't want you, find someone who does. Nothing lasts forever.
Fear is the force that enters our mind when we are being positive. It enters our mind with the other side of the coin. What if she rejects me? So what, then you know she's not into you. What is she doesn't want to have sex? This is just plain ignorant. Things stop me all the time from seducing a women and becoming sexual but I know that is my own inner mindset that is wrong and BS social conditioning winning over my true nature and true self.