Hi guys. Been into this community for almost 2 years now. Being a PUA is honestly the best thing I have ever experienced. Not only because of womens attention towards you, but also being me in general.

4 years ago I was the person searching for friends and girls. Situation is completely changed now. Have had a girlfriend for almost 1 year now, and several chicks are sick of waiting on me to break-up with my current one (not going to happen). I have also lots of male-friends and life is what I would call "perfect" at the moment. So PUA is fucking for real:)

Anyway, being into this game I have found out that there are two types of Alpha-males. This is a pattern im 90% sure is for real. Let me explain...

1) This male is the guy that all men and women are friends with. He can talk to everyone, and be the center of a party if he wants to. Lots of girls are chasing him and he can choose to have a girlfriend or play around as much as he wants. The majority of his male-friends will contact him before a party and ask to attend or go with him.

2) This male is the guy that talks to only those he likes. He don't need to socialize with everyone because all his friends (both males and girls) are very good friends. This guy doesn't need to check out girls, because they come to him. He seems to have 100% control in every move and decision, and he may be named the ideal-man by girls.

Do you agree with this? Who are you?

Veer more towards the second one in terms of my personality. I basically don't feel the need for a bunch of superficial 'friends' in order to give my life value or validation among other people. However I can see certain traits within the first archetype as well.

I just prefer to surround myself with people of equal intelligence and similsr interests if I can and most certainly do not need to make friends with everyone simply because I don't give a shit whether or not people like me anyway.

I suppose this comes from me being a complete misanthrope a couple of years ago, quite hard to break out from being picky about your social circle when thats how you used to be, though am attempting to expand it.

What you're describing seems to be a description of the introvert/extrovert spectrum, and you're focusing on the extremes. I don't really fall into either of these categories - I talk to whom I want to but I also like to sometimes be the center of attention/LOTP. It's fluid and it depends on the situation, but I rarely get out to one extreme or another and stay there.

What can I say, I like Nietzsche!

How about, I am neither type.

My type is Rune. Conscience's type is Conscience. Smartbomb's type is smartbomb. Turn Up The Night's is Turn Up The Night's.

Why did you make this post? It is pointless.
Be yourself.

Indeed.

You cannot categorise people that easily.

Most of the stuff we do here is cathegorized anyway. We are using stuff that works most of the times, on most people.

But yes, the point is valid. You are supposed to be not one of the extremes but somewhere in between.

The two extremes are not exclusive and are not really extrovert, introvert either.

I am a switch (he he, normally used in other types of situations) and can be both depending on what I feel like at the moment. I dont have any problems being the center of attention, I love it. But If I am entertained by the coolest people I dont need to go out for others, I will be content.

I would go as far as saying that the guy who only speaks to the ones he wants to speak with doesnt have to be alpha. He might just speak to the ones that are on his level because he doesnt dare to speak to others. It can be a matter of not having the choice.
On the other hand, so could the other extreme. A guy can surround himself with a lot of people in order to hide his insecurities.

Ezo

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

I think a lot of people who are new to pick up don't really know who they are, or feel as if they need to be something else to interest women.

I know I tried to be a magician back in 2008 after reading MM and the Game. Failed every time. Miserably too.

Then moving on to Natural game and absorbing all that it had to offer gave me a much clearer understanding of who I am and how I already possess the skills I need to attract even the most desirable of women.

I am the PUA who only talks to those I'm interested in. Otherwise I'm just wasting energy putting time into someone I'm not attracted to. So I chose the second option. Although I agree entirely with the above post from Rune that we are all our own type of person. We catered to our needs as they come to us. We don't have a set structure by which we go and pick up.

My carefully chosen friends are a good reflection of the type of people I associate with and those around me notice I don't have time for drop-kicks and bimbo's.

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Who are YOU?!