I somehow feel like I am repeating myself. I have pushed this thing in a few threads before but never all in one comprehensible post.

ALPHA MAN
WOMAN
NON-LOSER
I GIVE A FUCK

Thats some of the things this is gonna be about so if that caught your eye, read on.

Today we are gonna talk about your social circles and how the people in them benefit from your powers. (Powers is a lame expression I know but wtf.)

So you might say that people cathegorize. Everybody does it. Not necessarily a good thing (I hate racism) but lets just accept facts. People do it. You do it, I do it.
You might divide the world into PUAs, AFCs and girls. You might divide it into friends and enemies. Whatever floats your boat.

We cathegorise because we cant handle every single person in this world as an individual. Our time would cease to excits. We would not have time to take care of ourselves or anyone else that we care about. This is why we have all (probably without realizing it) divided people into different social circles.

All of those circles should center around yourselves and extend outwards. The inner circle being the one where we keep our family, our real friends and basically thats it.
One circle outside of that are people who you might work with, trust for some reason and friends that does not really matter but are nice to hang out with.
Then there is the circle where we collect our aquaintances and whatnot. Not very important but we remember their names (sometimes).

Then there are the people outside your social circles. The others. The strangers. People you meet for the first time.

In almost all sarges worth the name of sarging you start with a group of people that stand outside your social circle.

They are aware of it and you are aware of it. Unless you give your cock permission to think for you. Your inner yearnings tell you to bring that girl into your inner circle as fast as you can in order to enter her inner... you know...
Resist that!

Bringing somebody into your inner circle too fast is strange and it turns on all the warning bells shes got. Why the hell would you want her in your inner circle if she didnt bring anything valuable to you? Oh, she did, her inner... you know... That is not nice. It is basically saying, Im talking to you for reasons of fucking, nothing else. As if she havent heard that before. Just all the time.

You gotta pace it. Calibrate how fast you can go. She will come closer and closer and slowly go through your circles if you let her. Let her in, open the doors but dont push her through. Let her invade your space not the other way around.
At the same time, you need to make her understand that yes, she will expose herself to the possibility that you might be sexually interested in her if all goes well. No use telling her that you had your dick bitten off by a gorilla and hence you are not sexual.

This is the basis of the MM btw. Female to male attraction, she comes up to knock at the door. Male to female attraction, you open and let her in. Comfort, she goes further etc etc. You get it?

But you need to know how fast she is ready to enter your doors. If she comes running up to you and starts licking your face, then open all doors. (And remember the emergency exit.) Thats what you do when you are a natural, you build enough attraction before the approach so that they are ready to enter faster, thats why they all bash the attraction phase.

Anyways. Circles. They exist in order for us to know how to distribute our resources, like money, time, energy and so on.
If a stranger ask you for a buck, you might give him one but if he asks you for a hundred dollars, you will not. On the other hand, if your brother has just lost his job and needs a hundred dollars to pay his rent Im sure most of us would help him right?
This is how you need to think about attraction as well.
Your inner circle has a limited amount of spaces, it gets crowded. If someone comes in, another one lose his or her space. They automatically go down into a lower circle. These spaces are dynamic btw and change all the time.

What if, you are a loser and dont have any people to fill up the spaces in your inner circle. That means that you are desperate to fill it. You hand out free tickets to every single person you see. That is being needy. And it sucks.
Even if you are a non-loser you might have a vacancy for the special someone (the one that will drool on your chest in the middle of the night and you wont care since she let you do it just before you fell asleep). However, hot girls dont have a problem with having a vacancy in that spot. The line is pretty long. They cannot understand how you can be so desperate to fill yours, why dont you just wait a few days and choose the best one of the 50 suitors that will present themselves? So from their point of view you are a complete loser if you hand out vacancies too easily.
Which means. We cannot do that. Because, we are not losers or if we are we try to hide it.

So anyone who hands out spaces in their social circles too easily are needy and per definition losers. An alpha male never needs to care about that crap, he has all the friends he needs, and as the girls would think, as many partners as he would like to have.
Inviting people into our outermost circle is allright. You dont care about them anyway but they can have an audition to see if they pass into the next circle. Why not.

So what are the things that you do that equals inviting someone into your inner circles?

Examples:
Paying to take them out somewhere. Why is that handing out tickets? Because. With your friends, you dont pay. They are there and they know their place. They would pay for themselves. Would you pay for just one of your friends and not the others? No. Would you pay for your brother, more likely. He is in the inner circle. So pay for the girl equals an invite into the inner circle.

Caring too much. If you care about everybody you will have very little for everyone. You care more for the ones in your inner circle than you do for the ones on the outside. You DONT GIVE A FUCK about the ones on the outside. The only time you care is if you actually hurt their feelings, you dont wanna do that. But you dont go around protecting people who you dont care about. Why would you protect the girl that isnt even in your outer circles yet? She is nothing. Unless you wanna invite her in. But thats needy and you are a loser. You do care about the people you have in the inner circles though. This is what protector of loved ones is all about. LOVED ONES! You dont protect her. You show her that you protect the ones you care about, your inner circle. Thay makes her wanna be in it. It is a quality control. But you dont go around protecting people at random. It is an exclusive club.

Not being selective. If you arent selective about who you invite, you are needy and therefore a loser. You wanna start by keeping your distance and gradually open up. She needs to see that somehow her behaviour has given her the right to enter. If you just open up over time for no reason that is strange too. She needs to qualify. It could be any stupid reason. Like being neighbours, shopping in the same place, her playing some DHV game, whatever, as long as she feels that she has deserved the place.

I hope this cleared things up a bit...

So be careful who you invite, if the invite is to obvios they wont take it.

Ezo