Lately I've been seeing guys posting stuff and the context was pretty much: I can't do anything with her untill it's 1 on 1.
This barely works. and most of the time puts you in the friendzone if you're not willing to escalate while her friends are there.
This can be tracked down to not wanting to look bad infront of their friends. The mindset here is: rejection of 1 person is better than the rejection of a group.
Which doesn't make sense. If you talk to their friends aswell, instead of just focussing at the target (which most guys do) the chances are they find you a cool guy, because you are standing out and addressing them aswell. Key is to give value to the WHOLE group. not just the target. Compliment her friend and she will be your cheerleader.
Also if the target is not cooperating, you still got a shot at her friend. I mean, if her friend is cute, why not?
Talking to her friends makes it easier to isolate.
"The sneak attack"
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Girls have a way of packaging this shit with bows and ties but the only difference between a good friend and a girlfriend is sex. How do you "gradually" move onto sex? You stick it in or you don't. Trying to extract a good friend from a social gathering for 1st time sex is like asking a guy to go fishing with you and then showing up with lube and dildos and asking him to bend over.
Why are you going for the "sneak attack"?
Isolation itself. You're not supposed to drag the girl off 100 meters away from her friends. 5 is enough. You could take her outside for a smoke.
If you're talking to a girl while her back is facing to her friends, it counts as isolation.
What I like to do is make the girl turn around when opening(I enter in a slight angle and then make her turn to me, i might spin her around, hug her, whatever). Tell her I think she's cute. If she moves away->it's off and I will find a new target. If she doesn't I'll see how far I can get. I'll introduce myself to the group. Kindly ask if I can borrow her. And do my business.
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