It's a very rare occasion when I actually bother to use the misrepresentative system of repping someone, but I'm repping you for this!!
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Open goal - a pull/shag where you do minimal work; the girl opens you or shows massive interest when you haven't even tried
I am not a great looking guy, only average. To get girls I have to always do the work as I'm not some model who constantly has girls approaching him in clubs. One of my best mates is like this but when it comes to actual game he falls down pretty hard.
Reason I'm posting is before Christmas I had had one open goal in my entire life. Now, the last 5 girls I have pulled, 4 have been open goals. I have been approached by two, and the other have shown massive interest and followed me around. I've also been approached by other women but not taken advantage of it. I seldom get approached by women.
This is obviously not a bad thing, but as far as I know apart from my style of clothes changing slowly the only thing that has changed has been detachment of my ego and the fact that I no longer feel compelled to get with girls to feed approval of myself. I realise that there are literally millions of girls out there and I don’t care if I blow it with one because there are many, many more. Abundance mentality I think it’s called.
I did actually tell a PUA friend this that I had finally come to terms with my psychological issues from my teen years, by reading on inner game. He told me this would shine through me and I’d notice the difference.
I didn’t believe him but so far he has been correct. Even without all the open goals I’ve definitely made a big improvement to myself as well as my game. I guess thoughts and feelings project onto body language or something.
Thought I’d share this with everyone, since I love to hear how people improve. We’re all in this together; opinions are welcome.
Love trixsta
Brillant! All pay heed.
If you want to get better, swallow your goddamn ego and be goddamn honest about yourself and your game. This boy deserves more credit. The first step to doing things right is identifying and admitting what you do wrong. If it hasn't already, I'm sure your game will far surpass those who are first to readily offer their advice without ever exposing their faults.
I've been thinking about 'open goals' for a while now, and I like the way you've put this. I'll discuss further when I have more time.
A lot of guys think they're doing well because they're getting a lot. But they don't realise, or can't admit that what they are getting is often open goals, and I think the older generations of PU strategies - with their drawn out systems - actually guarded against this somewhat, unlike some of the newer ones.
When girls go out, they have an idea in their mind of what they intend to do that night. Often they have already decided if they are looking for a guy for the night or for longer, or not at all. A PUA is someone who picks up those in the latter category. All it requires for the former is just a bit of confidence.
Just like a good salesman will sell not to those who have come to buy, but will convince those who have come only to browse to buy instead.
This is what separates the PUAs from the average bloke who gets some.
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