Been talking to a lot of guys lately who are pretty MM orientated. I have noticed a lot of guys in general do this, it's understandable, as they want to convey value, but its totally uneccassary, a waste of time, and a good way to slow sexual escalation down. Flaws.
So many guys are so paranoid about showing any obvious or immediate flaws they have in their personality, they heap DHV stories on top of them to try and show themselves as "perfect". You may achieve this affect of being seen as "perfect" or "high value", which PUAs tend to do a lot, especially if the girl is in the high hb rating scale - but the more perfect you seem to her and her group, the more she will hurl shit test after shit test at you, and try to resist any sexual contact. Flaws can be attractive, many guys, ESPECIALLY pua's overlook that fact. Flaws are a type of vulnerability, and sharing vulnerabilities is a good way to connect. =). Nobody is "perfect", and if they are, it's the flaws in them which make them so.

_________________
V1V

Amen

If you can't handle the shit tests, then you shouldn't be projecting that attitude. Girls throw shit tests, the same way a glass maker taps the glass, its to ensure was being said is true.

So if you find these "shit tests" as too much, then your projecting something that's not really true at all...

A couple of examples... my religion, my systema and my love for philosophy, are things that I will believe in to the end, so its doesn't matter how many shits tests I get, it will never matter.

I barely ever seem to get shit tested. I can't decide whether it's good or bad, or neither?

As I read somewhere else (can't remember source): if a girl finds you 'perfect' she'll consider you as much more LTR material instead of a One-Night-Stand, and will therefore reduce sexual escalation and throw more shit tests at you instead.

So, depends what you're after.

A: Shit tests are a good responce.

B: Being aware and also comfortable with your flaws is incredibly attractive, shows you are human, and that you recognise it.

It makes you far more real and relatable.

V1V hold that thought I was going to be doing a post in a couple of days on relatability and attraction.

Well sharing a weakness is a powerful way to build a connection. It also makes you seem more genuine. A person who seems to have no flaws is either too good to be true and therefore intimidating or he is a liar...