Stop before Orgasm, the simple technique to drive women WILD!

Now when I say orgasm, I don't mean sexual orgasm, I mean any kind of peek. This basic understanding of human nature, once mastered, can be used to drive your success rates up a thousandfold. Let me explain-

You are in conversation with a girl, things are going good, you're talking, she's talking and you've reached a high end of the conversation when suddenly, as if out of no-where, the conversation comes to a stand still, you run out of things to see and while it doesn't look like it's going anywhere your girl is going cold and will probably use the next excuse to leave. What happened?

Many time when trying to implement the push/pull technique, I'm asked how do you know when to use it? How do I know when is the right time ti push and the right time to pull? And how do I do it before she does it to me?

Let me put energy in graph form. Conversations have energy, and energy can be measured. Like anything else put in a graph, you see that sometimes it rises and sometimes it drops and it has high points and low points. Conversations get better as the graph goes up, it peeks and then slowly climbs down only to work your way back up again.

So what I am basically saying is that conversation get good and bad, they grow hot then cold, and that what goes around comes back around and lots of other stuff you already know. So what's there to learn?

Well, start off by getting good at identifying the ups and downs, and especially identifying when a peak is coming up, cause after the peek there is always the fall. Now when you get good at feeling the energy you will start to notice the energy build up and realize where the conversation is going. And when you reach the point where you realize the conversation is about to peak, you stop.

What? Stop when things are about to be their best?

To best, and most easily describe why we do this, think about sex (that is, continue thinking about sex as I have little doubt you already were).
If you are having sex, and right at the second before you climax you are stopped, how do you feel?

So, if you are having a great conversation and at the moment before things are getting the best you cut it off for the girl you are talking to and suddenly let something else preoccupy your precious time, imagine how she feels and how eager she will be to get back into conversation with you.

That's right, cutting things off right before they get good is the secret, hence the title of this article.

This idea is powerful and effective and can be used in almost every circumstance- in the stock market, in conversation, in sex and many other aspects of life.

Quitting while you are ahead, what a concept.

So now that you have the tools to get people eager to meet you again and want to pay more attention go out there and, well, do it! No more questions.

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Good Post. Never really thought of this ! Girls do this naturally.

Could you give an example of a conv. to drive your point home. It would really help those who might still have some doubts or are unclear of your prospective.

Ok I like the idea but how do you just cut things off right at the climax i.e. what is an actual approach to use? it seems wierd to me

Yeh this is an interesting concept and would be great to turn that sort of shit on the girl. I guess a good way would be to have a mini takeaway like Tyler explains in blueprint.

"Oh hang on a second" You start looking at a text message on your phone while laughing a bit typing a reply.

Im sure you guys could come up with better things to say and do!

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You can wrap this long post to what tyler says. ''Leave on a high peek''

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And how would you suggest ejecting from the conversation ?

Like, as things are reaching the high point, you can't just suddenly go cold and start giving one word answers or w/e - that's just disrespectful in my eyes and it'd kill me if someone did it to me.

So what, do you just simply say you have to go do something ? What's the best way to do this ? Could you give an example.

Many thanks !

Good post... this relates to what i've recently discovered as well

I'm doing anything and everything to get my testosterone levels up to heighten my sexual and aggressive behavior with chicks..
So when I masturbate, I will stop right before the climax and wait a minute or two, then go again. i could do this for hours without ever cumming, and it works wonders for my sexual drive. Just learn to never give yourself an orgasm - only let others do it for you

Funny you should say this. Laying in bed analysing a Starbucks date I wondered why conversing had it's peaks and falls. And when it fell and went silent for a bit I didn't actually care - I was that comfortable with the girl it didn't even matter.

If you're comfortable then the girl will be, unless it's a ridiculous sitation. Awkward silences won't exist, instead they will be silences.