This is a thread about human nature.


More than I would like, a lot of people here ask a "what should?" I do question.

I strongly dislike that kind of question. And I'm beggining to understand why.

Picking up a woman is not a science. Its kind of strange to say this here, but there's no method in this stuff. All the body of knowledge that is called Pick Up Art, is just a bunch of tools, like an artist's paint brush. I dont like the words "routine", "target". We should have some lyrical selfsteem. That last sentence is really important, at least for me. I would be glad if someone felt the same way about it. But back on track...

Maybe the word science is not the most adequate one. Love (attraction, to get myself understood) follows no logic. If you know a little bit about mathematical logic, probably you've heard about prepositions.

Since love is not logical, not all its prepositions are "true" in the universal way of understanding the truth.

Sometimes I find myself wondering why this girl got attracted to me, or what did I do right. Like on that movie with Drew Barrymore. 50 first dates. The girl got attracted to the dude because his hands smelled like fish, and some how that was attractive for her....weird. And absolutely no logical, since other woman might find that disgusting. You can write a preposition like "fishy hands are hot" cause its not universally true. You cant even write "fishy hands are hot for this girl" because she might find it attractive in an special setting, or it just worked once in her whole life.

I dont belive that we are "understanding women" here. I dont belive thats possible.

Thats why I get upset with those dumbass question. Cause belive me, people can ask dumb stuff. I'm not going to write an example on what kind of stuff people asks, someone might get offended.

Love (attraction), has a huge component of doubt on it. Well, maybe attraction not as much, but still:

Life involves doubt.

If you could live your life again, would you live it the same way?

How can you know if any action in your life was the "right" one?

There's no way to know. Maybe talking to that girl in the bus stop was the right thing. Maybe studying design instead of economics was the right thing. You cant tell.

I only do the things that I feel right. Maybe I make some mistakes, but hey, we are all human.

So back on the love (attraction) thing...

Romance involves a lot, let me re-write that, A LOT of doubt.

She loves me? She loves me more or less than I do for her?

I could go on and on and on..

Thats why I dont like the "what to do" questions. When someone asks something like that, I think "This dude (girl) doesnt gets what life its about. And to make it worse, its leaving the burden on some anonimous person online.

I belive that you need a lot balls in this life. And even more balls in the bussines of the hearth. And this... well, it shows a lack of character thet I find rather disturbing. You wont get a girl(boy)friend acting like this. (there's a quote of "Love in the time of cholera that I over use, that is highly relevant)

I dont know how to live life. I just fucking dive in and hope for the best.

You should try it sometime, just use your judgement and do what you feel right. Dont ask me (or any other person) what to do, because its your life, not mine.

Want to know what to tell to this girl? Read this pick up stuff, and when you are in front of the girl tell what you feel right.

And if you fuck up, well, life its about fucking up too.

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PD: I use the words Love and Attraction as they meant the same thing just for lyrical purposes. I'm well aware of the difference between them.

The word lyrical... if you dont know what it means, dude, there's this thing called wikipedia....

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