Sometimes its hard to put an idea into words.

Sometimes its a good idea to leave it to the professionals.

Gabriel Garcia Marquez won a mother-fucking-literature-Nobel-prize, so he's the guy to get the job done:

"She reminded him that the weak would never enter the kingdom of love, which is a harsh and ungenerous kingdom, and that women give themselves only to men of resolute spirit, who provide the security they need in order to face life."

A resolute spirit In less elegant words, we are talking about inner game here.

Women are (mostly (virtually all of them)) are deeply insecure. As insecure as (mostly (virtually all of them)) men.

What is value?

The value of something is determined by its scarcity (for the smart asses, i'm talking relative here, not absolute). Most of the people in this world are insecure. Being truly confident is a rare trait. Most people confuse cockyness for confidence.

I've met some people that is truly confident. Usually they scare the shit out of me, because whan I talk to them, its ovbious that they are going to make it. No obstacle will stop them. They've won the race before it even begins. That scares me because its not "normal", and because I pitty the fool that dares to stand on their way.

True leadership is born from confidence. Thats why people follow great leaders, even to death. Most people are afraid of anything. The one that isnt afraid, attracts them like flies toward one of those electric light bug killers.

Since most of you guys are interested solely on the physical act of love, lets get back to the quote...

Women have a psychological need for confident strong men. I could talk you about the evolutionary roots of such need, but I bet that you can imagine them.

So, here's my personal idea what are the main components of what you guys call inner game (I rather use pretty words like on the quote):

Deciding what is worthy of having a place in your mind.

That is huge. Let me re-write it. That is HUGE. The thoughts of most people are a terrible mess. They let unhealthy stuff in. They think about things that harm them over and over again. Thinking about healthy stuff, over and over again its a far better idea.

Being able of taking a stand

I gotta be honest, I dont like that "The Secret" stuff. Not everyone can have the stuff they want, much less if the only effort they make is imagining that they will eventually have it. Life is not easy, and that is why I love it.

Most people just complain about not having what they want. Personally I hate when some dude logs in here just to complain about his life. If I'm hungry, I dont fucking sit on my ass and complain about the hunger. I'm gonna stand up and get some food, even if I have to work for it.

I wanted to have women of value in my life. I took a stand. To be honest, just the decission of taking action, was the thing that helped me the most. All this pick up stuff gives you a better perspective, but bottom line you need some balls to to the stuff that rewards you the most.

Having an adaptable mind

There's a famous salsa (maybe) song in spanish that goes something like: "Sorpresas te da la vida". The life gives you surprises. You cant possibly know how the next few minutes will be exactly, even less the next year. I cant control reality. I have a decent ammout of control over my own self, and thats just as good as controlling matter at will. Learn to deal with the unexpected. Learn to love the unexpected.

Know your place in the world

Thats a though one...

You have goals?
You have a personal sense of whats right and wrong?
Who the fuck are you?

I know I will succed in life, because I know the answer to those questions. I'm like a ship with a compass (or a GPS) I'm not going to get lost, even is there are no stars to guide me, even if the weather sets makes me lose course.

I have a subconcious idea of whats my porpouse in this world (I dont know for sure). I have a core, a center, my whole life is consistent with the ideas and values that live within that core. And thats why I fucking enjoy every second of my life. If I win the lottery tommorow, I wouldnt be happier. I would like to say that If I lose an arm tommorow (or my good looks), I would be as happy as I am now, but I havent been in too dark places in my life.

Everything is possible dudes.

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Sorry if I misspelled anything, But I gotta sleep now.

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Good post bro, good read.