| The title probably made this sound like it this was going to be more interesting than it is. Anyway.
This will probably be more useful to people who already have a decent understanding of 'game' and how it works. and may be a good tool for people intending to be coaches.
Basically, it's just a case of observation.
you can do this pretty much anywhere as long as theres a group of people socialising or whatever.
Today, when I was the bus just listening to music and watching the world go by, a group of people got on the bus, i think about 7 boys and 2 girls. One of the girls were going out with one of the boys.
What I did was look at the whole group, and look at how each of them came across, and what each of them were doing, that put them in that category, and what they could do to make themself more attractive etc.
The amog appeared to be this ugly ginger dude, however he was the bes dressed there and seemed to be the one who controlled the direction of conversations and was centre of the group. He was more than likely the most attractive member of this group. He was who most of the group were centered around. 3 members of the group were kinda broke off from the main group, and seemed a lot more silent and to themself. one of them, likely the least attractive of group, seemed very insecure and timid, he was quite scared of eyecontact with people outside the group and was the most secluded of the group (even of the sub group). He wasnt well dressed or groomed either.
It was very easy for me to identify everyones role/position within the group, and spot ways in which they could have improved themself.
I think doing this from time to time can be useful (not just fun for killing time on an otherwise boring journey), but for a few reasons..
1) It helped me spot peoples roles within a group, and how that group could be won over, or 'attacked' if you like.
2) It made me more aware of what can be done to escape certain roles within a group.
3) It made me aware of ways to improve certain elemets of your appearence.
4) Makes it easy to identify and be aware of where people are going wrong (I imagine this to be very valuable if you intend to coach in the future)
5) other reasons I have forgot but I'm too tired.
Anyway, badly written, a bit random, but I hope its useful in someway, to someone. Smiley
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