| This is actually more simple than you might imagine. However, it takes some time and dedication. It can be summed up as this "Knowledge is power, all knowledge is worth having".
The more you know, the more things you have to talk about. Here are some easy ways to give you an edge in day to day conversation with strangers:
I. Read the paper or news online.
Follow the popular stupid stories of main stream media like Balloon Boy and such, they are crap but they are fodder for conversation. Also be informed on certain political issues in case politics is brought up, but usually people avoid talking about politics in general. However, if it does come up in any context, showing you have an opinion and are informed will make you seem more worldly and intellectual, and if you pull it off without zealous passion and anger towards those who disagree with your political ideology, you will appear open minded and solid in your beliefs.
II. Read books.
This is a no brainer, but most people don't read often. Find a genre you like and start there, weather its mystery, sci-fi, fantasy, or classic literature. Branch out from there, buy random books that look interesting on the top 20 list. Its true, many people and many girls will not necessarily read, but if they do its a good conversation starter. Even if you meet a girl who is into romance, and all you read is sci-fi, you can show interest in her by asking her for a good romance novel that a guy might like. This also ensures a day 2, since you will need to meet up to get the book from her, and a day 3, where you return it.
III. Diversify your interests.
If your main hobby is sports or video games, most girls dont care. Learn to cook, play an instrument, sing, dance. Not only will knowing all these things empower your sense of self and boost your confidence, especially learning to dance, but it will make you appear more interesting when it comes up in conversation. What girl doesn't want a guy who will cook them Eggs Benedict the morning after?
IV. Find shows you like and watch them.
TV is a great way to talk about a casual thing and also see if you are on the same level as the girl. Some shows are immensely popular amongst many people, such as Lost or The Sopranos. If you haven't seen them, watch them.
V. Knowledge is power.
When asking her what she does, or talking about her vocation, if you know nothing about it (chances are you know little) draw the conversation out by asking specific questions which shows that your a curious person, and want to know more about what she does and her life. Obviously, avoid falling into playing 20 questions with her, but, as an example:
PUA: What do you do?
Target: Im a graphic designer.
P: What does that entail?
T: I work for a company that outsources designers for large corporations.
P: Interesting, have you done anything for any major companies?
T: Yeah, I did something for X
P: Do you enjoy what you do?
T: Yeah, for the most part
P: Have you ever seen digital art? Its pretty cool, it uses real photography and graphic design to create works of art.
Then the conversation might naturally transition into art, or what she knows about digital art, then you might talk about the art museum downtown.
P: Have you seen the new X exhibit?
T: Nope
P: Wanna go see it sometime in the next week or so?
Thus ensuring a day 2 and reason for further contact.
This is of course a hypothetical conversation, one of millions of possibilities, however as you can see, coming from the angle of not only knowing as much as possible, but also from the angle of wanting to know as much as possible (without asking 20 questions) you can have a conversation which feels natural, shows interest, shows intelligence, and allows you to progress into other areas.
VI. Kama Sutra, other Sex Books.
Read them, learn them, know them. It can only help your game in bed, and it can help in certain contexts in certain conversations that might arise.
VII. Food, wine, music. Don't restrict yourself.
Eat things you have never eaten before, learn about wine, listen to music you think you don't like and learn what you like about it. Saying "I hate country" to a girl who likes country is far less attractive then "I like country music, but don't identify with their lyrics" which is a positive NLP statement.
The point being, this will enable you to attract girls of all kinds, from the air head who never reads and doesn't care about anything but herself, to the girl who is super hot but actually is well read and will find your intelligence attractive as long as you use it to build rapport and comfort and stay out of the friend zone by maintaining yourself as a sexual Alpha male who also happens to not be a dummy. A intelligent girl might want to go home with a guy who is Alpha, but even more so with the Alpha guy who is smart.
This can also be used to build mystery. A man who has many interests is seen as a complex individual and not easily understood. She will wonder about you.
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Programmer of reality.
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