Always keep a positive frame and never expect anything in return. When you start expecting results you become needy and lose huge amounts of attraction. This is one of the biggest mistakes guys make day in and day out. I see this in almost every guy that I work with.

You know, there are only a handful of things that make a successful pickup. Most of them aren't things you should do, but things you shouldn't be doing. Being reactive, being needy, fidgeting, talking too soft, leaning in/bad posture. There are all things you shouldn't be doing, take them away form your game.

You can literally NOT do these things, go up and have a normal conversation, and have consistently solid results. A lot of guys look for all the bells and whistles. They look for the 2 minute pull with 6 chicks with fake tits and shit. They want to have a pickup that's mind blowing and looks like a fucking hurricane. Yeah it happens, but only when you're ready for that. I've had 5 minute pulls that look like 2 people talking and then we just go. That's it. When you start trying to go nuts and make the impossible happen you go home empty handed.

Guys discover this cocky funny thing and go overboard. It becomes an obsession to just make fun of girls and never have it go anywhere. Think about the end result you want. What you REALLY want. There will be no sexual interest if you do that shit for 20 minutes. Even if you do it for 5 minutes, way too long. You can make a girl laugh once of twice and you're fine. Do you know how many times most guys make her laugh once? It's extremely rare.

Pickup is an interaction between 2 people who like each other. That's it. No getting fancy. Go up, joke around, touch her playfully, lead the interaction where you want it to go, and do what comes naturally. Use this tonight and you'll see much different results. There's a time and a place for everything, but for the most part it's a chill interaction that gets sexual.

A lot of guys get in their own head, and that's the biggest thing holding them back. It's all about being in the moment and really enjoying the interaction you're having with a cool girl that you like. I was talking to one of my good friends who is ridiculously good at this, and we both say the same thing. Everyone we know that is great at attracting women has the same thing in common. They are very chill and don't get all riled up like they've never sniffed a pussy before. Enjoy women.

Go out tonight and try this. I promise you'll see much different results.

Rex

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Agreed too many people over neg myself included.

exactly what I just needed to take my game to the next level. thanks dude

Hmm a PUA that's Chicago based.. expect an email soon

Very good post, much appreciated friend. There are a lot of concepts that guys take on with all the PUA beleifs, and these concepts that somehow get stuck on with PUA bring us down greatly.

The only thing you were missing was getting to obsessed with negging. But still great post.

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Thank you for this fine read. Yes it's true, lot's of PUA's try to hard. Also lot's of PUA's learn 1-2 tricks.. but then they're out. They're so amazed by those, that they will go in armed with that. They do them, have success... and.. "oh fuck what now?"

Also makes them stay in A2 for a while.

If you try hard, it means you care about the girl. Whether it be AFC-behaviour or PUA-behaviour like crazy: it's both the same in the end if you desperately try to win your girl.

Once again thanks for the read!

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So pretty much, just be cool about it and dont try too hard?

Seems easy enough. In that case, why do these PUA sites make it seem so difficult?

Well making it seem hard is a marketing technique. Have you ever been out in field and had a great night because you were carefree and just enjoying yourself? That's how easy it is.

When you stop caring about the end result and just focus on what you have to do then this stuff becomes a lot easier.

The harder the pua site makes it seem the more of a scam they are. They are using fear to trick you into buying their product. That's basically every company in every genre though.

Relax, and rock out.

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I completely agree with this statement especially. One my wings met a girl about 3 months ago and things were going great for him. I could tell she was into him and eating everything up, but he never moved past certain phases. He got too bent on being cocky/funny, too bent on negging to the point of just being as ass, and too bent on always seeming like he had to one up her. He never seemed to move past the point of attraction. Yes he did attract her, but that's it. He never took the time to be a real person with her.

Like I said, that was three months ago, and where are they now? Let's just say he isn't any further with her than any of her other guy friends. She still says she likes him, but she won't commit or date him because of that 'something' she just can't pin point. Well my assumption is that this could be one factor. He is spending all of this time 'working' on her and it's going no where when I have seen other girls into him at the same time too. Don't let this be you. Don't be caught up in feeling like you have to act a certain way forever and you can never just have fun and be real with a girl.

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"Vincit Qui Se Vincit"

I spent three weeks trying to do everything wrong a long while ago. I would go into interactions and do all of the things people tell you that you should never do in an interaction. I would compliment girls, buy them drinks, hover, go in with terrible body language, fidget, take huge jumps in the kino escalation ladder, never touch girls until it was late in the interaction, touch them tentatively, pay too much attention to them, never smile, refrain from showering before I went out, go in with an obvious agenda... Everything I could think of to put myself at a disadvantage.

The result was that I still made out with about half of the girls I talked to. I got laid once a week, different women, doing _everything wrong_. The results of this experiment are this:

1) If you make the approach at all, you are at an incredible advantage.
2) Half of the shit the gurus try to pass off as gold is actually just shit wrapped in crinkly gift paper.
3) Women, even beautiful women, will forgive much more than we suspect they will. You don't need to be an amazing specimen of pick-up artistry to date beautiful women; if you're mediocre, or even bad, you still have a huge leg up on the competition.
4) The one thing that decided success or failure for me was determination. If you are able to go into a set and _stay_ in the set without creeping them out, you win. And to be honest, being determined and not-creepy is a lot easier than it sounds.

Just some food for thought.

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You know, I hate to call guys out but I highly doubt you got any result even close to what you said. Making out with half of the girls you talked to would be a better rate than almost any celebrity would get, let alone a needy creepy low value guy.

I really hope no one takes that post seriously. A lot of shit "guru's" say is a marketing technique, but the majority of it is years of hard work.

Wtf is a kino escalation ladder? Just touch her. That's a weird creepy way of saying it. If you only tried it for 2 weeks then why did you stop? Did you start making out with 51% of the girls you talked to while using "solid" game?

Don't take away from a valuable post with non sense keyboard jockeying.

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