Whatever you create in your own mind tends to be how your life turns out. There's a quote from Will Smith in the pursuit of happiness saying something along the lines of, "Don't ever let someone tell you that you can't do something. The only reason they say that is because they can't do it themselves."

Whatever inner thoughts you create on the inside tend to directly relate to your life. A lot of people walk through life with these thoughts:

-Everyone is trying to screw me

When you walk through life with this attitude you are letting your life be controlled by others. you waste so much time protecting yourself from others that you never have time to grow as a person. Instead of seeing the positive in any situation you always see the negative. You can become depressed and give up on things quite easily.

-I can't trust anybody

Once again, you spend your whole life protecting yourself from imaginary dangers.

-I'll never be good enough, so why try.

Instead of facing failure you just don't even bother. What is never attempted can never be failed. You settle for a life that is average, at best, if you are lucky. You may even sit in front of a computer and keyboard jockey rather than sacking up and talking to women.

A lot of times when something great comes along the way in life, that is when you face the most criticism. You can take it one of 2 ways. Haven't we all come across that in our "pick-up" journey? I remember how weird all of my friends thought i was. 4 years ago all my friends wanted to do was smoke weed and play video games. I never smoked, but I played PlayStation all day. Everyone made fun of me for talking to women and trying to get this part of my life handled. I got through it and here I am. Those people are no longer my friends.

We tend to become what we surround ourselves with. When we judge others we turn into exactly what we faced in the past. Everything we overcame we become ourselves when we become negative. Limiting beliefs are created in your own head. No one else creates them but yourself. It's all how you react to a certain situation.

Every time there is a situation in life you can act one of 2 ways. You can follow your patterns of self doubt that have been hindering you your whole life, or you can try to find the positive in any situation. I guarantee every situation you've ever been in there was at least 1 thing good that COULD have came out of it.

A lot of guys doubt themselves. It's very common. It most likely has to do with something that happened when you were little or growing up. It doesn't mean you're an asshole or a failure, it just means it's time for a change. So much negativity. Others are very quick to bash others. It's easier to stay in your negative pattern than to TRY in life and go out and make a difference. But we all have that inside of us. We all have the ability to live life for ourselves and not through others. We all have the ability to take control right this second and not be influenced by others. That is what self help is about. That is why we are all here.

The journey doesn't end the first time you sniff pussy. That isn't even part of it. Sure, women are amazing. But unless you enjoy your life and live for yourself, regardless of outside influences, you're not living life at all, and you're cheating yourself and everyone that comes into your life.

Be happy, enjoy life. It's too damn short to be pissed off and negative all the time. Smile. Start being positive today and change your life forever.

Rex

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Reality is only what your mind tells you it is. Most of us spend our entire lifetime inside our little heads.

Yeah but if we come off as fake, they'll see that....

[qoute]A lot of guys doubt themselves. It's very common. It most likely has to do with something that happened when you were little or growing up. It doesn't mean you're an asshole or a failure, it just means it's time for a change. So much negativity. Others are very quick to bash others. It's easier to stay in your negative pattern than to TRY in life and go out and make a difference. But we all =have that inside of us. We all have the ability to live life for ourselves [/quote]

Thats quite contrary of you.

I'm not exactly sure what you are saying here.

Everybody has doubts. In order to eliminate those doubts you have to free yourself from them. So what ever limiting belief you have, imagine live without it. Really focus. Take that belief, stick it in a bag, and shoot it into space. Totally free yourself from in. Now how does everything seem?

In order to grow you need to kick all obstacles out of the way. Limiting beliefs are the only thing that stand in your way, it's nothing physical. If you can tell me one physical reason you can't have the results with women that you want then I'll understand, but I don't see that happening.

My main point is rather than blaming someone else, look into yourself. Learn to take control of your own life rather than putting the blame on others, therefore letting them control your life. The thing is, most people will never know or never care what really happens to you in life. They don't care whether you fail or succeed. They don't appreciate your journey. No matter what your successes are they really will never be a big deal to anyone else.

That's why we have to live for ourselves and live a life that pleases us, not others. We are the ones who really care what happens in our lives, so why live to make someone else impressed for a second, when we can impress ourselves for a lifetime.

Rex

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Reality is only what your mind tells you it is. Most of us spend our entire lifetime inside our little heads.