Hello all

I have been doing this cool NLP technique for a month now and it works like a charm. I use it before i kiss/ number- close ( can also lead to F- close ). At first i just blurted out without realizing what i was doing but after that night when i was writing up the things i could improve i remembered this sentene. After that i started useing it to find out how it would really work.

So long story short, here it is:
Aprox 4 min. before i kiss/ number- close i try to fill in this sentence to the conversation:
" You know, its a sad thing how people get once in a life time opportunities and than they just overlook it without knowing what they just lost "
And after that just keep the conversation going ( try to relate this something that she is talking about and after you have said this continue the old subject. This sentence should be just a side statement ) while you build up more kino before closer.
If you close too quickly its quite obvious that you just used that sentence so you could just bang her. But instead if you give her some time ( and for her drunk brains to process this sentence ) than it should bring more boost to your closers.

The way i look at this is that this preticular sentence can do the following things:
A) Bring up memories concerning her last BF when they broke up ( or good memories before they broke up ) and now wanting to feel loved again.
B) She might have had rejected some guy in the past and now regrets it without wanting to do the same mistake again
C) Some girls ( especially the hot ones ) tend to reject boys at the clubs because they get satisfaction out of it. It boosts their egos. But when they wake up in the morning/ when they feel alone they might start thinking that " maybe i should get a BF and not be so bitchy at the clubs ". That sentence which i mentioned i use before i close might return these feelings back to her memorie so that she wouldnt do the same mistake again.
D) If the girl is shy than this sentence highlights that she should really grab the opportunity that she has been blessed with ( when she usually is too afraid to take action and than later regreting not useing the chance she had ) instead of feeling lonly again after the bar night.
E) Basically the sentence boosts her confidence to give you her number/ kiss you ( because she doesent want to ”miss the chance” you are now providing her and which she is now processing subconsciously or consciously. After all, we all feel lonely sometimes and when we do we start to think what our life would be if we had o BF/ GF ) When you throw this sentence its like a neg which makes her to re- valuate herself and her previous actions. It brings up memories which she may now see in a new light and wanting to chance those previous actions in to more spontanious.

I have no idea if someone has invented this allready but i named it as a ” Back Flash ”

[ Johnny B ]

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Hey man I got your PM and I must say that I think this technique is brilliant!

It is in some ways even quite vicious because you make the girl worried that she is really gonna grow old and think back with regrets, I can see the advantage of saying this line while looking out in the blue like you are ignoring her, so she really won't think that you are just using it as a pick up line and then start the kino.

You could also use some cold reading first to put her in the state of one of your A, B, C, or D scenarios.

I love it when I see other posters who have taken time to learn NLP, there is so much value in it!

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Slywalker

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"You could also use some cold reading first to put her in the state of one of your A, B, C, or D scenarios."
NICE MAN! This never even accured to me!! I have to try it next time!

[ Johnny B ]

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When you lose, don't lose the lesson. ~Author Unknown
Fear has a large shadow, but he himself is small. ~Ruth Gendler