Hi all,

I am not some guru,I am a nobody.I am neither new nor a experienced guy stuck in this game for a century.This post will offend lots of people so if you can't do like the topic of this thread,I suggest you quit reading immediately.

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As we go out into the field,more often than not we will start to meet new people,people from the field or simply strangers.Today,I'm talking about people who know PU in particular.You post that shoutout to meet a new wing,someone replies,you guys meet up and try to click.You judge.'Oh he's not good looking,his fashion sense sucks,his haircut doesn't suit his face' and so on...without even seeing how his game is.This my friend,is utter bullshit.Quit fucking judging.

This will be one of your most fucking biggest major sticking points.

Never judge a book by it's cover.But honestly how many of us do that?

So just the other night,2 guys wanted to meet me at the same night.One of them,hardcore scripted routines guy.The other,new age indirect natural game.And of course,like many of you guys out there,the natural game guy started judging the guy who's doing MM even before he met him.(This might only be happening in my area,but if you are one of them you definitely should read on)

Here's how the natural game guy sounded on the phone.

me,'Hey man there will be a guy coming to meet me as well.He does strict MM.'
him,'Are you kidding me?strict MM?holy.I hope he doesn't turn out to be some socially uncalibrated guy who dresses like he's going for the Brazilian carnival.'

Here's the deal.The guy who was doing natural game wasn't that good to begin with.I won't be a geek and analyze why but a major component goes to him being judgmental.Personally,I do natural game.It's whatever makes you happy and whatever gets you laid.Old-school hardcore MM does outrageous peacocking.As much as I laugh at mystery's butterfly nail art and fur hat,i do bear in mind the fact that he IS a guru,he gets laid.He's doing what works for him..He pulls 10s.Respect.Period.

Game-wise,until you actually show better results with whichever method you believe in(not the guy who started the method's success,I'm talking about your success),don't be there to criticize him until you actually do better than him.Your guru pulls too.Cool.Your guru can give comments.Prove your turn before you start yours.Take martial arts for example,you can't really judge which martial arts is the 'best',there is not solely one way that will guarantee a win in a fight.

I'm writing this because I'm met more than one guy who's constantly judging people using different methods from them to get laid.Take the guy who is using MM for example.I'm stating this as a matter of fact,and yes,judging him from a real world point of view,he's probably a weirdo.But looking at where you are and since both of you are in the same 'field/game/secret community trying to get laid',don't judge him from the point of view which you think 'should be the case'.

Having that mentality of 'Oh he's geek.He's a weirdo.' while that 'weirdo' is actually having success more than you are isn't being fair to him.Judging him with different set of criteria would sound like an amateur swimmer wearing speedos laughing at Michael Phelps for not swimming in speedos.I constantly found myself finding lots of reasons for others NOT to be good;what I believe in and who I am is the only pathway to glory.How would one ever improve if excuses and reasons are constantly being churned out to stop your own reality from being smashed?(You see an old man with a chick and you go,'oh she's a hooker' or 'she's just out for his money.' You see a nerd's photo in bed with 2 other chicks doing a threesome and you go,'this photo for posed for.')

I started out with MM as well and as much as I love that part about it being 'seduction for dummies',the reason why I'm letting it go is because of the mindsets that lie behind it.I'm simply no longer into the whole 'my value is lesser than HBs and hence I have to drop their value and up mine/my self worth is based on the girl(s) reaction' and their IOIs.That constant reaction seeking tires me out.

I prefer not to be bounded by the a1 c2 and crazy body rocking.Now I act solely based on my instincts,escalate based on my core muscularity and intent,touching her because I feel like it and I want to.I prefer showing my true self than masking my intent to touch her using palm reading techniques.That being said,I am cool with MM users.

This stretches way out of PU.Through lots of day-to-day basis conditioning plus the whole 'the mind sees only what it chooses to see',a lot of our limiting beliefs have been so strongly rooted to our core that it is hard to keep an open mind of what else could be the case.

Both men and women love sex.Male promiscuity has glamorous connotations that act as an affirmation of alpha-ness and masculinity,or in our case,solid 'A' game.Yet female promiscuity is viewed as a sign of loose morals.If you're judging a girl in set like this,how would you expect to sleep with her?

If you refuse to allow your reality to be shattered and keep yourself open to new beliefs,continue judging and you'll never find success and glory.