I'm an hug addict.

I go up to girls in clubs and tell them I am one.
And i also tell them i want a hug from them. which i usually get (i only get rejected if she's mentally ill)

Then i do some follow up by telling them i nearly did the free hugs campaign to get my daily fix.

It sets the right mood for the interaction to go. Besides it lets her know i'm a touchy person so kino won't come across as weird.


-Jav

That's wicked man, I'm super happy that you're doing that cause too many people are too scared to actually hug girls in clubs and stuff, or if they do then they're really weird about it. Glad you're being successful out there, keep it up!

Everyone learn from this guy!

Thanks for the reply, Rye. Appreciate it.



Mind you, I'm totally doing that for self-amusement, not to get cheap hugs from girls

Jav i'm going to have to steal this from you because it is excellent

There is always that socially acceptable reason for doing those things that we really want to do. But may not know exactly how to go about doing it without being creepy.

Screw handshakes... well.. go in for the handshake, then pull back, 0.5 second pause, and hug. That's instant rapport breaker even for the shortest amount of time

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Kino-ing early on. I generally handshake when I meet a girl and hug when we split up. I could handshake transition to a hug. Etc. Good stuff.

Too be honest I thought this was given.

I remember when I was about to shake one girl's hand and she likes who does hand shakes, and she hugged me. At that point i'm like seriously handshakes a girl.


So basically ever since, I always make sure I hug a girl. That way its always you setting the tempo.

Anyways, yeah HUG GIRLS. And when a girl is say's it weird or something just tell it's culture. How do you think italian guys always get away with kissing the girl within just two seconds.


WARNING: Don't be a douche and do this to girls who boyfriends/husbands are right there. First off its not cool to game these girls(wives).

Second, you never know if your breaking a culture code by trying to hug a girl who normally is not conditioned to it.

That's it, don't be creepy.

Well put man. I think that as long as you're comfortable with something and you make it clear that it's your normal behaviour and that you're not a creep, then the girl will conform to it without any negative feelings. I'll say goodbye to girls and do a kiss on each cheek and then a kiss on the lips and that's not something that people really do in Canada, but I expect them to do it and so they do and they smile and have fun doing it.

The same applies to almost anything. I kissed a girl's entire group of friends right in front of her while she encouraged them to stick their tongues in my mouth, quite happily, because she knew it was all in fun and wasn't a huge deal. Once you are able to get that mindset crazy shit just starts happening and you don't realize just how crazy until you look back because it becomes your reality.

I love hugs they are great haha

Shamelessly bumping this thread for the peeps that are missing out.

Appreciate it!