93% of all human communication is NON VERBAL (OR somewhere around that) ... this means that the words we speak are only 7% of the communication. We communicate A LOT of things unconsciously (Body language, clothing, tone of voice, posture, eye movement, eye contact, etc...)
How do you use this for your advantage?
I remember reading somewhere the line
"Leave her better than she was before she met you" ... or something like that, its on Neil Strauss', The Game.
Make an impression on her!
I will put an example and then explain in depth.

You: (OPEN) .. Hey I need your opinion on something. Do you think its possible to have a healthy relationship with language barriers?
HB: Well... (let her talk, pretend to listen, and do body rocking motions as if you were leaving, she WILL notice)
You: Get this, I have a friend who is dating a Russian girl, and she barely speaks English/Spanish/etc... and sometimes they have a hard time communicating, but they're sure of one thing: They love each other... would you out with a guy that could barely speak your language?
HB: blaah blaah blaah
You: Well, you know, spoken words are only 6% of the human communication. So the words we say are not even a third of what we actually communicate. Isn't that amazing?
HB: Talking
You: See, I can tell a lot about you just by looking at you.
HB: HooKED! (lets say she's wearing a purple shirt, with black jeans and black and white converse shoes, she has a necklace of a heart maybe, she is wearing diamond earrings, a bracelet, she's wearing eyeliner, no lipstick, and her hair is on a ponytail)
You: Well, you're wearing a purple shirt, purple is a color not naturally present in nature, it is associated with royalty which matches your earrings and your bracelets, meaning you have class, but at the same time you have this mysterious, shy girl inside you, people sometimes see you as mean because they don't know you, you're a true romantic (necklace) and like to put some time into you, you plan out exactly what accessories to use, you have an adventurous side of you that loves to have fun (shoes) and feel young and alive! ...
HB: Wow ...
Most likely you will get some right (IF you study it) and something not right, but she will be totally excited about it.
She will probably start blabbing now about whether its true or not.
Then you can proceed.
You: Interesting.
HB: What?
You: You looked at (insert location here) when you were saying that. See, depending on where you look, it means you're accessing a different part of your brain (Read this on The Game, when Style interviewed Britney) ...
You can actually combine body posture, body language, eye movement, tone of voice and everything else to determine whether a person lies or not.
You also have an expressive face! Are you an actor?
HB: No /Yes
You: I had this girlfriend who wanted to be an actor, but all she got was modeling jobs because she didn't had an expressive face. (Then make a fake face and say how she always had it like that) But I can totally see the emotions in your face when you speak.
HB: Haha thats awesome (You're proving a lot of value by now, you've been intelligent, you demonstrated Mystery's principle "Preselected by women" when you told the story (if you use that) and girls love when you tell them things about themselves.
You could then do a cold reading on her, or rune.. or something like that. But don't show all your cards. Say something that would want to make her see you again. Like.
"Ok, this is all you get, I can't tell you more of this secret/forbidden/ stuff" and put a smile. "I could teach you more stuff, but not now"...
Then its up to you to proceed ... and close her, or just leave it like that. Practice for Approach Anxiety. ...

The point of this post was to make her remember you. Trust me, she will be thinking about that for all day, about the cool guy that talked to her and told her all this amazing stuff.
You don't exactly have to tell her about her clothing. You can run tests like the "middle finger/ring finder test" ... or a lying test.
But she will surely remember it if it has to do with her.
I recommend you study stuff like this. Go and search for the meaning of colors in people personalities. What their favorite animal says of them. Read on body language. Psychology is your #1 friend when dealing with women (Or ANY interaction)
Read Psychology, learn NLP.
You can tell a lot about a person by her clothing, way of walking etc... And then you can decide how to approach and what to use.
I'll make another post on this subject next week. I really love psychology and using those cold reads on girls has given me a lot of succes.
Until then!

-Adilinar

It's called a cold read but do not go around doing it to every chick you see because you "want her to remember you." You should be doing it because you want to amuse yourself and find out more about her.

BUT, I think a better way of getting her to remember you is to be 100% genuine and 100% congruent and LEAD and be DOMINENT.
She will remember you because you are not a chode who stood there wallflowering, or were you that weird guy who kept on spitting memorized lines.

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All you have to do to make a girl remember you is to be memorable. Be charming be different sweep her off her feet and then help her stand up on her own. Take her on an emotional roller coaster with pattern disrupt and NLP. Then my all time favorite...give her a silly nickname then let her nickname you. She'll never forget that.

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"Fortune rewards those who are bold. She is a woman." -Macchiavelli

As long as your cold read is a positive one (one that girls like to associate themselves with) they will respond with enthusiasm and try to live up to that (if you're a sexworthy guy that is). Do that and cold reads barely go wrong.


Girls are clay, we're here to mold them. and again "leave her better than you found her"

i think if i did a cold read i'd feel real incongruent

ok, cool. Why?

stimulate emotions indeed ..... stimulate, use PUA method , NLP

i usually do this

when she invests

sniper neg ( DLV her) --- > fun story with tease ( stimulate ) --- > tease neg ( disarm ) ---> funny story with DHV spike (stimulate ) ---- > compliance/ kino testing while tease negging her (familiarity ) ---- > NLP

when i invest

funny story DHV spike --- > compliance kino testing ( escalate) --- > defy( push) -----> ask question (NLP) ---- > talk about her answer (NLP)
if she doesnt answer or react when asking just freeze her out

when a girl tells her story or whatever ( when you asked or not ) reframe and NLP it to yourself using body language and gestures.
with question stuff NLP ... she : i like the color red
then i would do : i like the color -red - ( at the word red im pointing to myself, gesture to myself while using the word red )

she likes red --- im red ... simple basic NLP

if you lay the emphasis on NLP you get a way different game.... less natural and very programmed, i only use NLP at the end.

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AHHAHAHAHAHAHA...ok

let me tell you something "pua's"

half of you commenting on these posts havent approached a single girl in your whole madafacking lives.

forget all this NLP psychological brain fucking bullshit, because it doesen't work.

yeah you might get lucky with some girl but thats it.

why not try looking good and try having a normal conversation

as simple as hi, how are you? and make an observational comment...you guys are fucking tools if you need this pua strategy shit

Hope you use your psychic gift for the good of mankind bro


This is still part of game, not in the sense you need it, but more the science behind it. I think it's interesting.

first of all im not a PUA , im a natural.
when i want a girl i use certain techniques to win her over, only when needed.

second i approached more girls then you have seen in your life, and they approached me to .... i worked as cassier, bartender, bouncer, sports-instructor ( regular sport, martial arts etc ).... I learned alot about human psychology in my relationships and during my career. From what i've learned ; if you apply these techniques in an social enviroment you will get higher in social Hierarchy.

''forget all this NLP psychological brain fucking bullshit, because it doesen't work''

i agree .... NLP does not always work, it simply doesn't affect some persons but this is seldom.
It only works when you make it work , alot of psychologists and psychiatrists USE NLP so it probably does work ? and there is alot of proof and vids on the net , you just pull of your own conclusion before viewing all the points. Il bet you don't even know what NLP is - you probably know its called neuro linguistic mind programming.. thats probably all you know.

''why not try looking good and try having a normal conversation''

we all have normal conversations but we use certain techiques incorperated in those conversations....... its like 80 % natural 20 % trick. don't think all PUA throw 100 % canned material because they don't.

''as simple as hi, how are you? and make an observational comment...you guys are fucking tools if you need this pua strategy shit''

''hi how are you'' is a tool ..... if i say ''hey i got a question you got a minute'' IS the same as saying ''hi how are you'' ......... in the way you are talking about woman now i can see you only want to fuck them, you don't care how they are doing you just want to get into their pants - you are way as manipulative as a regular PUA. Strategy is nothing more then a way/tool to achieve a certain goal, it can be opening up a conversation, getting a girlfriend or just having fun.

if you see a hot girl on the street and approach her with '' hi how are you doing'' you lie already - why the fuck ask a stranger how he/she's doing ? like he or she cares they don't even know you.... you just wanna know her and fuck her, and they know it. If the girls are dumb enough to notice, or she really is attracted to you then she will comply.

''yeah you might get lucky with some girl but thats it. ''

well everything is little bit based on luck and faith..... i just hope the girl i just met or im dating isn't a slut.
And if i go out tonight i can easily pickup a girl in a bar in perhaps an hour or 3 and take her home , but i don't fucking do it ... why?

first of al bar girls are/ girls who made out in bar are 80 % slut
second i don't need a fucking woman to live my life, i can do perfectly without one.
3th i don't need to fuck, i just want to have fun in any way
4th im interested in human psychology and social behaviours


don't imply all people on these forums are :

all PUA 's who use 100 % canned material
loosers who only get girls with techniques
guys who fuck every slut present"


And it's certainly not PUA tricks or whatever..... it all derived from simple plain human psychology studies , it's just social science applied in an social enviroment.
even some psychologists or therapists use these techniques.

well the PUA/guy who is a psychologist or therapists because he is 100 % a social control robot - isn't himself, if you do that then there is something really wrong with you.
but hey... if he's happy that way then who am i to judge him ?