Never really seen this mentioned in the community, but I have been rolling with a gay wing man the last couple weeks just the two of us. The guy is cool as hell & knows tons of girls, & just having him around totally disarms the chicks plus he's been vouching for me giving them a wink and a nod.

He's a big flamer so it's obvious from the moment he opens anyone. I think most girls assume I'm gay as well which is fine & I have actually been kind of letting that vib settle until they start asking qualifying questions like where im from what I do etc, but a little intense eye contact at the right moment normally clears things up.

The guy also watches me pretty close and critics my body language pretty well and things he thinks Im doing wrong, gives good feedback on things I tell him the girl is telling me as well.

All I got to say is if you got an obviously gay friend you should roll with him one night.

I had a gay wing man and didn't even know it. I just thought that the guy was a big time PUA . . .

Socially, he was wide open. Professionally . . . well, he needed to be tight lipped. I knew him both socially and professionally but needed a few nights out . . . (and meeting his boyfriend) before I could figure it out.

It just goes to show . . . BEFRIEND EVERYBODY.

Secondly, my GOD . . . this guy was a MAGNET. I hardly even needed game. He'd set everything up and even play "straight" to help me out. You know how girls see a hot gay guy and go, "what a waste . . . "? This is him. . . Great friend and wing man like no other . . .

&%$#, after I praised the guy he totally destroied my state last night. First thing he does is make fun of my shirt being borring and then tells me it was too tight, and he could see my nipples and I looked gay. Totally killed my state & I never fully recovered. Which sucked because I was meeting a chick there & I never could get my state back straght got blown out by her after I had been so effin strong with her the night before.

I had noticed the guy shit test me a lot like a woman, & last night I think he was jealous and hatting. He hit me at my weak point because it was a new shirt and I wan't totally sure about how it looked. Word of warning I guess. Gay wings can be good, but expect some hatterism to and for them to try to test you.

PUAdave,

I am inclined to believe that the guy was trying to "neg" you in order to GAME YOU. I guess if you didn't end up making out with him, he failed . . . Guess "negs" don't works so well after all . . . lol . . .

Next time, maybe you can tell him, "Oh, you want a piece of this? You better try harder than that!!"

I don't think he was trying to get with me. He obviously knows Im straight as an arrow after the last few weeks hangin gout. Guy was obviously in a bad mood last night for what ever reason could be frustrated whatever, but he did nail me where I was weak last night and it was on purpose.

I don't think it worked like a neg though because honestly I valued his opinion but it pissed me off and I didn't hang out with him, & am in no hurry to again. I'm more pissed I let it tear me down though & get me self concious in my head.

I've got some inner game work still to do because that's twice in the the last couple weeks I've let little shit really rattle me and ruin the rest of my night. What's weird is it wasn't even from targets, cockblocks or AMOGs. It's this unexpected shit that hit me like a sucker punch. Very interesting cause I hadn't had a bad night in monthes and have had 2 the last 2 weeks because of crap like this.