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To conclude..can we be ourselves in front of the ideal Woman?
You're going about this with the completely wrong mindset.
"Who you are" is a fluid concept that should change over time as you are presented with new perspectives and new ideas that expand your consciousness and test your beliefs. At its best, that's what the community represents, although people often lose sight of that or never realize it at all in the pursuit of "quick fix" remedies to their life's problems.
The implication in your post is that you're still hiding behind a bullshit social mask that you know "works" with women, but isn't true to who you are at your core. Fix that, and not only will you feel better, but your success will skyrocket as well.
Your boy,
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