| ALL THIS IS BULLSHIT IF YOU DONT....
Learn to Develop a Healthy/Rich Lifestyle.
YES.
AS YOU READ IT.
ALL THIS PUA AND/OR RELATED STUFF IS WORTHLESS IF YOU DONT DEVELOP A HEALTHY/RICH LIFESTYLE WHILE PRACTICING THIS STUFF.
Youve Seen
Read
and Heard
About the thousand adventures Mystery, Matador, Cajun, Gambler, Sinn, Ermmm or whatever Other Great Pick up artist has had and you wonder how thats possible and THEN.. They gave US the answer.
Yup, Our heroes; The great Pick up artists have given us mortals hope by SPAM their secrets and we have them all inside our hard drives, printed on hundreds of pages, over the internet, Tv series, magazines, converted to hundreds of Dvds.
Its a World of knowledge at hand. It had never been so easy, in Decades of the existence of the Digital World. Right now its the time when its the easiest to share and create information, Thus It should be that easy to Learn also.
Yes Yes, i know were all eager to learn and be better and have a better life and yes, I could start with 1 reason for anyone to want to read this PUA material and learn more and more.
Anxiety around women
low self esteem
feeling of loneliness
and we can go on and on ...
And Tada !!
Many people are actually taking an advantage on reading this stuff and re improving their lives. And i bet that If you ask the guys that are far more advanced on this matters. How are they doing it. They could agree on one thing.
They've built a lifestyle or a life they're proud of. Or at least Theyve developed a more healthy, more rich, more interesting life than they had before. Maybe more friends, maybe different jobs, hobbies, theyve met different places, different people, maybe theyve actually started their own business, or started/finished college or the university or whatever.
But You can be GOD DAMN SURE that, to whatever degree They HAVE BUILT AROUND THEMSELVES a POSSITIVE AND MORE HEALTHY AND RICH LIFE and Thats what has actually made the difference while they were improving their skills.
Ive seen many guys ( both realworld and online world ) who just ask about openers, and routines, and AA breakers and day2 and all this stuff and many of them actually used the material or the advice for some time and it got em possitive results but it actually never helped improve their game. not to mention their lives.
And I was wondering why??
and How, how is it possible that having all this knowledge at hand, all this digital world that enables you to learn faster and bettter and with this huge community of great guys like you. How is it possible that a person doesnt improve his game?
... I have a friend whos also very much into the PUA ... he used to be shy and wasnt quite the most funny guy ever or the most outgoing one... Some time later he became a Pro you could say... and Hes now popular and all those things he always wanted to be.
A couple of weeks ago he was talking to a couple of girls and a guy and the girls were all over him, and one of them told him..
Hun !! were want FUN right now !.. and he told her
Babe .. I AM FUN !....
He got em, hooked them, everything. You could see that he WAS IT. He didnt need to aske their numbers or to play any gambit or display any trait of alphaness, or at least not in an artificial way. He didnt even need to F them. Nothing. He was just there with them. and they loved him.
And I started remembering how he was years back, shy, quiet, goofy and how he started doing more things out of his life, Maybe more things than we all thought he could do, like taking swiming lessons, doing mountain bike riding, going to a university, reading about more subjects than comic books or videogames, started going to clubs, ask advice on his clothing, read more and more, joining us on a couple of roadtrips we did, he also started a small home business.
And when then It hit me, that it wasnt just the BOOKS he had been reading or the advice he once took....Cuz i had gone out with him a couple of nights and he never used any material or gambits, or FTC or stuff anymore.... he was just being himself. and Yes he got shot down a couple of times but he had a smile you cant change....
It was that He had built a BETTER LIFE FOR HIMSELF that had His whole LIFESTYLE IMPROVE including his game with women.
There are many great pick up artists out there, and many books, articles, exploits and videos on PUA Stuff. But sometimes i feel that they dont remark enough on the IMPORTANCE on building a life, or at least improving it.
So MAybe just to end with this.
If Any of you is getting into this amazing world of Pick up, id also suggest to diversify your life. Do as many activities as possible, run, jog, join a gym, read, study, find a passion, a profession, start your own business, find a Decent JOB, go out more, have adventures, visit your friends, go to diferent places than youve ever been, paint, play guitar, whatever.. Have a life rich of experiences and healthy of emotions.
PUA GAMES and STUFF is great but only if you can Comibine all this LEARNABLE material with a constantly-improving Lifestyle.
Remember how its said that reading is only 10 % of the GAME and the other 90% is in-field practice..??
well THE WHOLE GAME Is just a 10 % of what your life should be about and the other 90% should be built around many other rich and interesting stuff.
You can also refeer to a very interesting part of the Mystery Method about Identity and Image. Thanks Mystery =)
So read material, watch videos, hear advice, play gambits BUT..
IMPROVE YOUR LIFE.
=)
I hope you meet all your purposes in life and you achieve all your goals =)
peace.
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".. I will learn all that I've forgotten, I will succeed where I'd previously failed, and even if I don't I wont stop, cuz this is not just about girls, this is about Life "
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