what iv been getting annoyed at recently is iv found a few really cute friendly girls got there numbers see them out in town regularaly, they always come say high and i normally get some kino, kiss etc..

but they never innitiate conversation, there always waiting for me to start talking. iv found talking ot their friends being more fun than with them.
And im tlaking general stuf here im talking movies, food, books, music, and their not contributing at all... WTF!!! when im with them or talkn in the set, im gettin IOI's i have managed to amog a few dudes aswell their agreeing, with me, and talking...

every now and then one will open up for the breifest second and say something awesome, like this little blond lass for example does beauty & dancing, in my own fault i had seen her as a little party girl barbie, but she grew on me so i give her more time to come out, when i asked her to tell me something about her personality that i would like she said, and i quote..
"being 18 i really dont know my personality well enough to make that statement, im learnign more about myself as i get older, i know im not all nice and im learning to figure out my own flaws and personality. so i really cant give you any sort of definates, and thats all your getting"

she was talking about her journey of self descovery, and for a moment her "high energy had gone" it was though she had grown and was just talking, it was awesome. there was more to this girl than i first thought.

but then again next week she goes back to being shy an not talking much.

another girl can tlak for 20 minutes about nothing, an im talking absolutley nothing. constant stream of fluff, which to be honest i do prefer as im not comfortable with silence, but still it does give me alot to work with when she talks alot, so conversation is easy but sometimes a little slow and nothin really more than fluff.

blondey hb 7.5
chatty, McChatterson hb 8

ON THE CONSTANT SEARCH FOR LOOKS AND THE PERSONALITY, I DOTN BELIEVE EITHER OF THESE GIRLS ARE THEM BUT STILL WILL BE GOOD PRACTICE AND PIVOTS, BLONDEY WAS MAKING PLANS FOR DECEMBER WITH ME LAST NIGHT. NEED TO STOP NEGGING HER NOW I KNOW SHE IS NOT SO SURE OF HER PERSOANLITY.

sorry bout capslock!

has anybody reading this had a simialr problem with girls not being able to talk to you? im hopeing, (silver lining) its because im coming over strong and confident, but i have know blondey for a while now so she should be comfortable, i use kino to make her feel at ease, whilst not letting fall into her comfort zone, I.E still stimulating her, anybody got any suggestions?

-peace-

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Dont worry ive experienced the extream fluffers before.

In my recent lay report that was the exact thing that i encountered. You put it perfectly "they can talk for 20mins without saying anything". Same questions and repetative sentences. It soo unattractive. In my case this exploded after i f-closed. I didnt try to stop it because It was my fault. I believe this jibber jabber that spews out from them like this is because they are despirately searching for validation to themselves for sleeping with you (or just me lol). Either way its a definate price to pay for being lazy in A3.

I have yet to encounter the oposite of that though. It would actually be an amazing experience to sit facing a girl cross legged staring into each others face while just keeping silent with some good music on. Aww im getting all soft on you guys! Shucks.

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