A new transition in life can be an extremely powerful tool to use in meeting and attracting women. Women use this to their advantage all the time.

The concept is that you present yourself as either the "new kid in town" or the intrepid traveler who is leaving town soon. When you present yourself as something new people attribute the qualities of mystery, interest and intrigue to you.

A movie world example is James Bond, he is always a stranger in a strange land, the mysterious figure in the shadowy corner of the bar in a five start hotel in an exotic place in the world.

When you present yourself as the new kid in town people instantly want to know where you are coming from, and what you are doing, and more importantly, who you are.

We can't, of course, all be like James Bond. Traveling the world and staying at five star hotels is an expensive and unlikely proposition for most of us. But we can use the concepts, even if we're not really in an actual transition.

Even if you can't move to a new city, you can do new things within your city, and meet new people while you are doing it. I've seen many women break up with their boyfriends and then enroll in a salsa dancing class and meet a new guy within a week. The interesting thing there is that dancing classes almost always have more women than men, yet they still manage to find a new partner.

When you create transitions you break your old routines.

Routines make life comfortable, but also not very interesting. If you have the same job for 15 years, do you really think will remember the difference between year six and year seven at that job? But if you have 10 different jobs over the course of fifteen years you will probably remember each of those jobs pretty well.

My point is to constantly be on the lookout for new things to do and new social circles to break into.

I have taken the concept of transitioning seriously and have been rewarded by it. I accepted a one year job on a tropical island in the South Pacific. I came in as total unknown and have met so many wonderful people. Even though there are only a few thousand people that live here, I have been able to meet as many women as I want and have had a nice string of relationships.

I am now looking at new job for three months in SPAM, Nepal and looking forward to the chance to move there and start life again anew.

When I move back to the United States, I will have many amazing stories to tell and will always be able to present myself as a world traveler.

Transitioning is an extremely powerful tool and can easily be used to enrich your life.

Good luck in your life adventures, and safe travels (even if it's just to the salsa dancing class)!