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So that is why girls string guys a long, make them invest, play hard to get and basically try to make your life as tough as possible. Because most women know that if they have sex with you right away, they can't get what they want. And if a woman has sex and then tries to get the guy to commit, she just needs a lesson.
I completely understand what you saying it's rough for a woman, but most guys like me don't see it like that. You've got to see from the man's POV we don't want to be dating a girl we can only cuddle with and then have to put up with all her complaining, emotions, spending time with her, buying her stuff.
I see things like this having sex puts a man in a whole different category with a woman vs some guy who hasn't had sex with her. Both the man and the women are more accepting of eachothers, emotions, complaining, go out on a dates. I don't think having sex lowers a girls value to me at all I believe it increases it.
I've seen too many guys wine and dine women break up without ever having sex. Those guys suffer the worst break ups simply because they lied to themselves and let the women dictate the pace of when sex was going to happen.