i approached this girl in university, got her number and that was the last i heard from her.
if it was in a club i would say fuck it. But i dont want to ruin my university rep. How can i get her now?

well have you called her? Did you leave a message or hangup.

When I get a girl's number, i'll call her the next day at most 2 days. If it rings and i get her vm, i'll leave a message. if it goes right to voicemail,i'll hangup and call later.

if i left a message and she didn't call me back then i'll try again a few days later, and if i still don't get ahold of her then it's NEXT...

what u said is exacxtly what happened.
Im still going to go after a whole lot of girls but my pride is telling me it wants to come back home so im going to have to try anything to get her, even if i were to dump her the next day.

ruin your university rep?
your pride is telling you?
Even if you were to dump her the next day?

Wow…sounds to me that it isn’t about the girl, it’s about your ego. The first two statements above just scream out that you are seeking self validation, and by not getting it you “have to try anything”…think about that for a minute....cause it sounds like desperation. And your last statement just proves my theory…you obviously don’t really care about this women, you just care about knowing you got her. So my advice is get off the high horse and forget about her cause if she ain't returning your calls and never answering when you call, she isn't that interested