So I live in a fraternity house in college. And I have many qualities that girls often find attractive by purely becuase of the quality. I will come back to my place and there will be a huge party and girls will already know who I am and start asking me about things they have heard. Somtimes they dont even hear about me but see something say in my room and they assoicate it with me "Ohhhh! SO you are the such and such guy"

And the more I tell/show them things the more they get excited and attracted, but its not to me...its the idea of me. I cannot possibly live up to "the highlight of myself" all the time...

When i started gaming it was for fun and cuz i was AFC to the max. Then it became very very empty and pointless. I met the girl I am seeing now becuase she was tired at a party we had and sat down in my room. I came in there an we just talked, and it had nothing to do with all the shit these other girls go after.

They fall for the person they have in thier head that useually is not me and it sorta ruins it for me. Has anyone ever experienced this? I like to call it the groupie effect...