It's good to put your motherfucking foot down! I just recalled a morning not too long ago when after a f-close the previous night, I woke up at 7:30 am with the HB in my bed. Now, nothing is funnier (well, maybe taking an HB back to your place, sucking her tits and having milk come out ) than an HB that wants to have sex but doesn't have the confidence to roll on top of you and take what she wants.

Woke up, girl was already awake and smiling from reading a Mad magazine i had on my bedside. I say g'morning and walk to the toilet, take a leak and jump back into bed. She puts the book away and puts her face on my chest. I pat her head and ask her what her plans for the day are. She says "not much", so I tell her the day is still young, something will come up for her.

She heads to the toilet, comes out after a minute without her panties. Throws them at me and I toss them to the floor. She jumps into bed, runs her finger on my chest then after some odd silence, asks me a series of questions:

"Do you always sleep this long in the morning?"
"Are you tired?"
"You're tense."
"Are you sleeping?"

Blah blah fucking blah ... all the time I'm laughing in my head that if i don't make a move, this girl will explode coz she's really horny. So I tell myself:

How about that then? We're always running around for some snatch and it feels good to say no, sunshine, i don't want sex. I'll decide when we should fuck - you're no longer the one that decides. I'm the one that's going to make the sex happen. Wait.

I think adopting this attitude when you're sarging is gold. Makes you THE prize (as has been pointed out several times by members here - be the prize!) I don't know how many of us have taken this stance in-field but I'd like to hear your thoughts and how the "i'm going to have sex only when I want to" dynamic plays out for you.