If you numberclose but can't get anything that night and go for a day2, would it be cool to suggest as a first date to go and play hide and seek at ikea?

What does everyone think?

By the middle of the afternoon she would be shopping for her house and you hide in some kind of closet. lol

Ok, now seriously

I wouldn't really do that.. In the beggining you need her attention to be turned to you, you need to talk, to have interesting conversations, be C&F, be challenging, etc.. so that attraction can be built. I don't see how can you make her attracted to you playing hide and seek at IKEA..

I have asked a few women over the last few days about this as an idea for a first date. I tend to get a much more positive response from younger girls. I'd say to only try this one with a girl under 25. Even 24 is probably a bit old.

Yeah, and if you ask them what they look for in a guy, they won't tell you that they want a challenging, cocky, guy who's buting their balls all the time..

The point is, the idea is to create attraction in a deeper level. You simply can't do that playing hide and seek at the IKEA.. Of course women won't tell you this.. they will tell you 'yeah, very nice idea.. it should be great...blah blah blah', whatever, but just because they say it's a good idea, doesn't mean that they think that they would like it, and more important, like you....


But it's an interesting idea, if you can come up with different things to do and still can create attraction, as i said in the other post, then it's perfect..I just don't thik this one would work..

I don't know what kind of girls you hang out with or how old you are or where you live, but pretty much every girl I know tells me exactly that. (I may just come from a generation and a country where people are extremely direct).

And the last girl I asked said:

"Haha, I would be all over a guy if we did that on the first date"

Ok, if you say that it's good, and women say that's good.. Take there one girl..

And then come here and tell us how it went..



If after that date, the girl would be all over you, I can admit i'm wrong, no problem with that..

I would, but it's more of a relationship starter. And I am not interested in relationships.

I would, but it's more of a relationship starter. And I am not interested in relationships.

exactly, it's a relationship starter because it will make the girl think that you're fun, and have different ideas but it won't create attraction..


That's all I've been saying from the beggining!

Quick Question: Would you call up your buddies to go and play hide and seek at ikea...? If yes then go for it, if not, then don't do it.
Don't try to be spontaneous, and don't TRY to have rather. Rather just do what makes you happy and what you actually have fun doing.

It makes much easier... lol