Some people recommend to give an ultimatum, some don't.

I wonder what's the common sense here among master PUAs. What do you do when a girl stops answering your calls / returning your texts?

I stop calling and texting them as well once I take notice. You have to remember not being needy is an attraction switch. Your willingness to walk away can get you the girl. If I have tried 3 times to get in touch with the girl and left her messages and she doesn't respond or text back. Freeze out time until she contacts me back.

Then I will give one last try in about week later mostly just as a followup. But at this point I've moved on.

Attraction is a funny thing that way it's either ON or OFF there isn't much in between. So if she's not responding or calling you back you have to assume it's OFF. Time to move on.

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If they stop answering / returning calls, take the hint. You don't need them around anyways. Don't be needy!

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Women are fickle

They stop taking calls for some crazy reasons. Never assume why they did.

As JSmooth said, be able to walk away.

Personally i dont make demands, call me or else shit does not work, i will keep the contact info. Time is an amazing thing, it can heal wounds and make people forget why they stopped talking to you in the first place.

Freeze them out, move on and later (few weeks, a month maybe more) Call them, send them a text. Act like your best friends and nothing negative ever happened. As if it never even phased you that they stopped speaking to you.

Ive been able to reignite relationships with even the most stubborn girls this way.

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when this happened with the last girl I sent her a text.

"hey look people I hang out with and spend time with will answer my phone calls. If this isn't you I understand. I will always remember the times we had with a smile."

she came over that night, we had sex. Then I thought everything was good, a month later and it's over. I got mad about her being flaky, and things just never worked.

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Ok. So there was this girl doing this.

Now she talked to me again like nothing happened. How do I set up the frame of her chasing me again?

don't do an ultimatum

Style wrote in The Game that ultimatums are made by insecure people trying to affect something they have no control over. Simply placing an ultimatum on the table is setting yourself up to fail.

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She is sending you a very clear message when she stops returning your attempts at communication. Respect her boundaries. Don't be a stalker.


S

IMO ultimatums are ridiculous.

They'll just make you look like you have issues haha

why not try sending them a text inviting them out to help you pick up women and completely re-disqualify yourself.
That or just leave it dude, pleanty more fish in the sea
Josh

see her in person/arrange a meeting or date

things like eye contact and body language are missing from technological contact, which makes them really not intimate. so to build the attraction back up, meet her, intimate conversation, kino all over again, repeat if she does it again

I'm going to give that a go with a girl I slept with a few weeks back but stopped contacting me. I'll prob wait another two or three weeks though cos I actually bumped into her last week. I will report back how it goes.[/quote]