A women's greatest strength and weakness is her emotion. It is her greatest strength to use her emotions to manipulate us, but also their greatest weakness and downfall.

Work that into your game. Learn to control emotional frame, not to use it against them but to build bridges that hem her emotions together.

Learn to get her emotionally charged and really into you. That is your check-mate.
This may come across as manipulative, but it is only as raw and morally wrong as the person that uses it.

Use it for HER advantage into really digging you, not to YOUR advantage to laying her.

For example:

A woman's over-exaggerated hyperbolic emotionally charged statement is only a representation of her current emotional frame, so devalue her statement, and learn to elicit positivity from her. Get her really digging you.

This also has a fractionation effect to it, so it'll only bring more pleasure for the both of you.

This can be the Apple of Adam and Eve to us though. Once we taste the emotional connection--love per se, it can cause an addiction, and our downfall as well.

This especially applies to some women, the ones with real insecurities about wanting male acceptance.

Some are just emotionally raw, and have HUGE self-defence mechanisms to protect themselves. A fear factor. I know I am categorized into this section.

There are a lot of case-by-case factors, so identity what the situation is for your girl.

I am in no way encouraging manipulation, but to build real connection, you must by-pass this.

Even for a ONS you will need to raise the emotional bars and lower the logical bars.

But for more than a ONS, this is key. Control the emotional frame and the outcome of arguments and pleasurable moments.

The paradigm of women.

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I'm addicted to facing my fears.

True, short and effective.

Great post Besch !!

In addition I will like to add the importance of being sensitive enoguh to understand what a woman might be feeling and REMEMBER for a man it is more important WHAT YOU SAY and not how you say it and for a WOMAN is more important HOW YOU SAY it not what you say. (the difference between (case 1) "You look good" -with a normal tone voice and the (case 2) "YOU REALLY LOOK GOOD TO NIGHT BABE" - excited tone... you said the same but she hated you the first time and she loved you the second time.)

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awesomeness.

This is all well and good. But how? You've told us to get a day 2 without teaching us to time bridge mate .